Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WAs just chatting with this chic

Immaculate

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I was just chating with this girl I met on my space. She told me she's a freak and she loves bad boys and stoners and all that. So we were chatting, and she starts telling me how depressed she is right now.

I jokingly said "i'll give you a spanking maybe you'll feel better"

She said "you're sick......bye" and logged off.

WTF? What i said wasn't that bad was it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LoveBOT

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Originally posted by Immaculate
I was just chating with this girl I met on my space. She told me she's a freak and she loves bad boys and stoners and all that. So we were chatting, and she starts telling me how depressed she is right now.

I jokingly said "i'll give you a spanking maybe you'll feel better"

She said "you're sick......bye" and logged off.

WTF? What i said wasn't that bad was it?
I don't understand people who "Groom" women online...isn't that what paedaphiles do to kids?....just get out in the real world and meet real women instead of acting like some kind of pervert online.
 

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LOL, I hear that
 

Immaculate

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Re: Re: WAs just chatting with this chic

Originally posted by LoveBOT
I don't understand people who "Groom" women online...isn't that what paedaphiles do to kids?....just get out in the real world and meet real women instead of acting like some kind of pervert online.

yeah good advice... however at the moment i'm helping run a business and i work 7 days a friggin week.. i don't have time to be going out hunting for chics... yeah if I see one in the store I'll talk and try to get the digits but whatever...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bro you should have just told her you had some killer chronic, and to come over to your house.

That would have sealed the deal, don't freak them out on the net. Get the number right away and go in for the kill, talking on aim for weeks just turns you into the surrogate boyfriend at best case, and never ends with you banging the chic.

Get some nuts and get her number then take care of business.
 

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Re: Re: Re: WAs just chatting with this chic

Originally posted by Immaculate
yeah good advice... however at the moment i'm helping run a business and i work 7 days a friggin week.. i don't have time to be going out hunting for chics... yeah if I see one in the store I'll talk and try to get the digits but whatever...
You have time to hunt for chicks online, but yet you don't have time to hunt offline, women don't want to spend time with a guy that has no time for them.
 

Immaculate

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Originally posted by JH6
bro you should have just told her you had some killer chronic, and to come over to your house.

That would have sealed the deal, don't freak them out on the net. Get the number right away and go in for the kill, talking on aim for weeks just turns you into the surrogate boyfriend at best case, and never ends with you banging the chic.

Get some nuts and get her number then take care of business.

man I asked for her # already in a chat we were having.. I said I would love to talk to you but you have to fill in the blank xxx-xxx-xxxx... she said nah... I don't want to give out my number... what's a guy supposed to do?
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Re: Re: WAs just chatting with this chic

Originally posted by LoveBOT
I don't understand people who "Groom" women online...isn't that what paedaphiles do to kids?....just get out in the real world and meet real women instead of acting like some kind of pervert online.
And "paedaphiles" don't exist in the "real world"? :rolleyes:

And the women on the internet are some "new breed" of women different from those in the "real world"? :rolleyes:


When will you people learn there is absolutely no difference. The rules of the game change a little. The people don't.
 

Cheat_LBJ

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Originally posted by Immaculate
I was just chating with this girl I met on my space. She told me she's a freak and she loves bad boys and stoners and all that. So we were chatting, and she starts telling me how depressed she is right now.

I jokingly said "i'll give you a spanking maybe you'll feel better"

She said "you're sick......bye" and logged off.

WTF? What i said wasn't that bad was it?
She said she was depressed. Ask yourself: if you saw a woman that looked really depressed at the club, would you consider her to be "approachable"?

Cut it out with the internet and go meet people face to face. Talking with women online gives you no ability to read body language and build rapport.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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