"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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was it a test?

coffin

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my manager who is a friend to a girl i work with came up and randomly asked me iff i liked this girl i do but was caught off gaurd adn said no.. bad move on my part??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Charm&Style

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not really, if shes into you shell work for your attention even more. Word of advice never go for chicks you work with, especially this one who is friends with your manager. If things dont go her way she can easily ruin your rep at work, get your fired, etc. Not worth it, IMO.
 
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