"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was indifference the best way to handle this ?

house

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Okay, it's a girl I acted a ***** with, she put it on a plate , didn't lay then f'd it all up after. You may have seen my posts (pretty pathetic reading )a few months back.
Since then I've had a couple of lays, steady plate until I got bored ,being hitting the gym a lot & felt much better in general. Still working on drinking less.
I n/c with her, acted indifferent when paths crossed etc. & she was no longer in my mind. She was just one of many I regret not nailing due to my beta blue pill traits / thinking.
so, I'm at a bar with a couple of friends . She sat at the other end talking to a mutual friend who came in with me.
From somewhere he asks if she shaves. She responds ' house wouldn't know, he never got that far ' (in earshot)
I wasn't even involved in the convo & ignored it.
Then she shows a picture of something (a cat?) to him & says it's like house?? (again, in earshot)I just tell her to stop being ****ing wierd.
Then back to being indifferent to her, chatting to my other mate & a bartender for a bit. End of night .

How would a DJ of handled this?

I know her respect for me was lost when I didn't smash it but why the trash talk now? I just wanted to unleash back but thought **** it she just lost all my respect.
I don't normally give a damn what people think but disrespecting me in front of my mates really Pissed me off .


Thanks in advance .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VladPatton

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You should of interjected with "I didn't get that far because I lost interest!"

But for the record....a woman you refused to bang will be severely scorned.
 
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