Was I played by an attention wh0re?

[Jariel]

For the last 3 months I've been getting high interest from a HB9. She told my friend outright she is interested in me, so I asked her out.

We went out and the two of us were getting on great, good rapport, positive body language (hair play, eye contact, fidgeting) and she even said she was having a great night so far and was glad we came out.

However, later in the evening we met up with a group of her friends (she asked if I minded, but I said no) and things took a turn for the worst. She clung to her (female) friend like a schoolgirl, chatting away and pretty much ignored me. The males in the group were quite nasty towards me and then started being cold with her, so she decided we'd ditch them. So for the following hour I ended up with her and her two girlfriends listening to her moan about her male friends and how they must be jealous because she'd been out with me.

I took this as a sign of an attention wh0re and started to think I'd been played to make other guys jealous.

Anyway, it just wasn't an enjoyable night so I made an excuse to leave and I plan on nexting her. Just wondering how you guys would read this with your experience of attention wh0res. Is it normal for girls to cling to their girlfriends and ignore the guy she's on a date with? Am I being too defensive or should I give her another chance?

 

[DJDamage]

I believe your first mistake was saying yes to the group idea. Until you don't establish LTR with this chick her family and friends should mean nothing to you. You are the stranger to the group and since they don't know you and you don't know them, you don't know who has hidden agenda's to fvck up your date for their own selfish reasons.

Originally posted by Jariel
Is it normal for girls to cling to their girlfriends and ignore the guy she's on a date with?

Yes if she is 15 years old! Most chicks are immature and do not know anything about respect. I don't think she did it on purpose but you know what they say ignorance is a bliss.

Originally posted by Jariel
Am I being too defensive or should I give her another chance?

She doesn't sound like a great LTR material. Sounds more like fvck and chuck. NEXT!!!

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Ask yourself man do you want a girl who gives you most of her attention on a date or a girl who ignores you

a. A girl who wants to enjoy life and have fun
b. a girl who runs around saying her life sucks and be a little drama queen.

a. a girl who as her act together and mature
b. acts like a little brat and dosen't care about anyone else but her self


If you picked a and a then you should lose this chick.

Some women to avoid

Female players - have a lot of men and flirts with them acting like they are interested in you when they aren't.

Drama queens - like to be center of attention and dose and says anything to get it

Miss B - only cares about herself and want she can get and very selflish

Man haters - watch out for these girls. They aim for nice guys and take their anger out on them. Man haters don't know a good guy when she sees 1. Ketp your eyes open.

Good luck man

 

[Flogger]

Holy self-absorbed!

definitely an AW

 

[Blackdragon5095]

question ?? what is AW

 

[flexion_]

Hmm... it didn't sound all that bad by your account but I wasn't there.

You only have to listen to girl complain if *you* let her. Just an observation - you sound a bit "clingy" to me.

I agree with others that its not a great idea to meet all her friends until you have a relationship with her. Its typical for women to stick with women and men to stick with men in these group situations.

If she an attention ***** then those angry chaps with you were just the AFCs trying to hook with her and hence just annoying bobbles and nothing more.