and basically, I could not get with any women... I don't get it... normally it's not a problem, start dancing, they dance with you, and things lead from there... last night either they danced a bit back, and it lead to nothing, or they turned away...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Was at a club last night...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonJoseCantosie
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How about females off the dance floor? They' most likely wanting ur attention 
Wanna know the real problem? Sorry to sound a bit like an idiot but here it is:
The fact you're asking the question is the fact that never got any women last night in the club.
But dude, stay with me now, because there is an explanation to my statement:
When did you start to get the feeling that the girls didn't want to dance with you? I can tell right away that it happened the same night. And, without you knowing about it probably when you first got rejected a couple of times. See where I'm going?
It's not about inner game, it's about inner beliefs. And, it's about knowing who you are and what you're capable of doing:
So, you probably went out last night, approached the club, and started to dance. And, then, the girls at first didn't feel like even looking at you or dancing near you. So, you thought "Gosh, let's move on to the next girl, because these ladies didn't really feel for it."
And then, the same thing happened again.
And again.
And you started to generalize.
And you went like "Damn, why doesn't this WORK?" And then "There's gotta be something wrong with me, or the maybe it's just the ladies. "
Then you saw other guys dancing with the girls so you came to the conclusion that it was you.
And that's why you're asking for help. Because you want to know what you did wrong last night.
Don't worry man, it's not your external behaviour that's wrong. It's not the dancing. I know it and other people too, because the WEIRDEST GUYS on the dance floor are usually dancing with ALL THE GIRLS all the time.
Of course dance courses helps out and everything but man - you got girls before on the dance floor didn't you? So that can't really be the problem.
Next time, think about it when you enter the club. And then, think about how little the girls acctually care about how you dance:
They're just there to have a good time. And, i can promise you one thing:
The guy trying the hardest always fails.
The fact you're asking the question is the fact that never got any women last night in the club.
But dude, stay with me now, because there is an explanation to my statement:
When did you start to get the feeling that the girls didn't want to dance with you? I can tell right away that it happened the same night. And, without you knowing about it probably when you first got rejected a couple of times. See where I'm going?
It's not about inner game, it's about inner beliefs. And, it's about knowing who you are and what you're capable of doing:
So, you probably went out last night, approached the club, and started to dance. And, then, the girls at first didn't feel like even looking at you or dancing near you. So, you thought "Gosh, let's move on to the next girl, because these ladies didn't really feel for it."
And then, the same thing happened again.
And again.
And you started to generalize.
And you went like "Damn, why doesn't this WORK?" And then "There's gotta be something wrong with me, or the maybe it's just the ladies. "
Then you saw other guys dancing with the girls so you came to the conclusion that it was you.
And that's why you're asking for help. Because you want to know what you did wrong last night.
Don't worry man, it's not your external behaviour that's wrong. It's not the dancing. I know it and other people too, because the WEIRDEST GUYS on the dance floor are usually dancing with ALL THE GIRLS all the time.
Of course dance courses helps out and everything but man - you got girls before on the dance floor didn't you? So that can't really be the problem.
Next time, think about it when you enter the club. And then, think about how little the girls acctually care about how you dance:
They're just there to have a good time. And, i can promise you one thing:
The guy trying the hardest always fails.
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Front like a rich celebrity! Get some pu**y or booty cuz you only got about 30 minutes before they find out. I do this all the time cuz I don't know the best club game so I took matters into my own hands!