Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wanting women to be just like us.

Poonani Maker

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We complain here a lot. If our target would only do this or that, be agreeable to fvcking whenever we want, however we want, just comply, we'd have nothing to complain about. Basically, I think that a lot of guys here (myself included) want a sort of man-woman, a woman who was born a woman but fvcks or enjoys fvcking like a man. Those are extremely rare, but I've found one, and while she sometimes resembles a boy in behavior and in her non-feminine hands, all her other parts are very feminine (though I will admit that she wasn't born with the wide hips that most men go bonkers over) and excite me to no end. She has stretch-marks, from 2 kids, but her breasts are still intact, nicely firm - I guess this is from not breast-feeding them? She regrets having kids (I think due to the overwhelming responsibility, stretch-marks, and disdain for their fathers).

The point I'm trying to make is, when we have sex, she is so aggressive (not submissive at all) and so up for it whenever I want it, that I am beginning to see her as more and more like me. It's almost as if I'm fvcking myself because she is everything, sexually, I could ever ask for. Do we really want our women to be born with a man's mind? Cause hers is very boyish, very unbound by a lot of the restrictions most girls put before us. It's like the female mindset doesn't even register with her to be submissive, to not want sex all the time, to not want me to buy her things or try to say nice things to her (I don't even have to compliment her, she's a very even keel person who understands what bullsh!t really is and carries absolutely No drama).

All these Other women, on the other hand, Never will be able to understand how to clear out all the bullsh!t from their tangled, shift-shaping, unstable minds. I believe it All comes down to genetics and how they were born. Women who were born with just the right amount of testosterone (i.e. never grew a d!ck) to make them everything we ever wanted with regards to sex. However, we truly would like to bang the most feminine of feminine without having to deal with all the inevitable Bullsh!t that arises out of that particular submissive, helpless target. The more feminine of a woman you choose to go for, the more trouble, I believe, you may be getting yourself in to. We call that high maintenance, an emptying out your wallet, a mental Hell.

So being able to identify the least feminine women is just as important as being adept at finding the girliest girls, especially if you are not rich or have a low tolerance for bullsh!t.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I simply bypass all of that by finding women who are not satisfied with their current relationship.
 
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