"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Want to know what she is thinking

Fatal Jay

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Ok I'm banging other chicks on the side

but with this girl, I can't get inside of head, this girl never calls, never text me, but when I do text her to come over,she says yeah, so I'm over her apartment we never had sex, but I'm usually making out with her and feeling her all over, yet she never show signs of going any further.

Then what has got really weird she been hanging out with this gross over weight lesbian butch. This lesbian has been buying her gifts I think even paying rent, she hangs out with this girl constantly, recently the lesbian bugged out when the chick I been talking to told her she is not a lesbian and never did want her, when I was over the girl house recently the lesbian was blowing up her phone constantly crying talking about how she was in love with her, and we was both laughing at her. What is weird this week though they both back hanging out this week, yet the girl I talk to claims she will never be a lesbian.

I really don't get this chick, and at the same time I think she is a ****ing low life gross chick for hanging out with this lesbian chick

I mean damn if it was a hot lesbian chick I would understand, so what do guys thnk about this situation

Is she interested or not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fatal Jay said:
yet she never show signs of going any further.
Either you meant to say "she stops me from going further," or we might have found your problem there.

You should be making her want more.

EDIT: bradd80 beat me to it
 

Fatal Jay

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Thanks

Yeah the lesbian chick doesn't bother me,cause her looks alone shows I have no competition and even if she was hot I would be down :up:

But I have felt her breast,but I never took it to an just ravage level, and brad you right I never did hit the sweet spots like the neck,I know if I get the neck I will pretty much be in that bedroom lol

Thanks for the advice arocket
 
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