"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kdnash82 said:
She became an ex for a reason. Keep it that way. Move away, find another girl, start over fresh.

Once you flush the toilet, you don't go back looking for the turd right. It's called waste for a reason.

Even if you were to find the turd, it'd still be a turd. Just a soggy one.
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Nice try with the analagy but I think his relationship with the girl (and any relationship) is a little bit more complex than the relationship he shares with his sh1t.

I feel like people here want to make everything black and white.
Theres a grey area when dealing with ex's.
Its alright to have grey areas where you dont know what exactly is the right answer. Just learn from the mistakes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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