"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Walking away from guys trying to start fights..

devils3777

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My two friends and I might have gotten into a brawl last night after the bar closed, but we chose to walk away from this one idiot.

I met my two friends down at a bar at a beach town in New Jersey last night. They met some hot blonde girl inside and then were talking to her outside (where some her friends and other guys were standing).

My one friend who is about 10 years older, but a real good looking guy started doing this little dance that the girl asked him to do.

The one guy (who was with this group) and obviously jealous and insecure in a way kept saying:

This guy is gay, He's gay.....Nah, he's a fag....then he's a Homo. He probably said this about 6 times and was looking at his boys to back him up and say something (none of them did).

My friend just smirked at them and ignored them. If he would of said something back, there would of been trouble.

Moral of the Story:


It is okay to let your ego take a hit by insecure, jealous idiots who want to start trouble and walk away with all of your teeth and possible criminal charges.

ONLY FIGHT IF YOU HAVE TO!!!
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BlakeW5

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Moral of Story: Not paying attention to another guys cheap shots makes him look like a tool

Ignoring or laughing off things like that are usually the best way to handle the situation. Lions don't pay heed to jackals...

Reacting to the douche would have only shown that your buddy saw him as a threat
 

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just talk a lot of **** and make all your friends laugh hysterically at him while not giving him a chance to speak will really tick him off
 

DJVladdy

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You have a point,

but the problem is that many guys reading your post here - they're pvssies and dweebs ALREADY.

So NOT FIGHTING and bailing out, and avoiding fights.. has not really been much of a problem. So you are kind of justifying this behavior for them.

Like in that particular situation - if he repeated that sentence like 6 times i woulda said something like: you keep repeating the word fag, so you're gonna suck my d!ck, me and my friend will let u do that if u really want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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that would also cause an unwanted/unneed fight. over what? the ramblings of a drunken idiot. really, theres no need to throw hands over a drunk jealous guy trying to look good in front of his buddies as well as impress the girl. hell i doubt the girl was too enthused with it and his buddies didnt seem to really care. the guy was obviously just jealous so your friend must have been doing something right :up:
 

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smoothtalker72 said:
that would also cause an unwanted/unneed fight. over what? the ramblings of a drunken idiot. really, theres no need to throw hands over a drunk jealous guy trying to look good in front of his buddies as well as impress the girl. hell i doubt the girl was too enthused with it and his buddies didnt seem to really care. the guy was obviously just jealous so your friend must have been doing something right :up:
Yes, thanks,,,he did the right thing. Guys who can't control their egos do something stupid and retaliate.

The guy calling my friend names just ended up looking like an insecure loser.
 
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