"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey guys, so I have a question. I have a girlfriend, I'm pretty happy with how it's going after a few years so this is kind of irrelevant but I'm curious
So I went out for lunch with a buddy today, the waitress seemed pretty friendly, we were friendly back but we were definitely more involved with our conversation. Anyway she was giving me slight cues, and I will confess I haven't read all the DJ bible yet, but there was a lot of prolonged eye contact, standing close to me on my side of the table etc. Now I wasn't interested in her number or anything at all, but I will admit it would be cool to have a waitress or server write their number down on my bill or whatever because they're interested in me. I've heard of this happening to other guys before but it's never happened to me. What have you guys done to make this happen with yourselves?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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