"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Visiting New Jersey for 3 weeks

jt the azn

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Sup fellow DJs, I live in Canada right now and I am going to visit New Jersey tomorrow and will be staying there for aout three weeks. Any tips or suggestions to make the most of my saring? Thx in advance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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seaside hights is fun if you like the beach. Atlantic city, ummm really I should ask you what part of jersey? North jersey you have the hoboken bar scene, south you have atlantic city, seaside hights, far south you have capemay and on the left side you have burlington and philadelphia.
 

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3 weeks in Jersey?? Sh!t man, if I didnt live here and have a life I'd go nuts!! :eek:


But yeah, we have a pretty sweet ass beach thing going on. Atlantic City is fun if you like gambling and scumbags. We have 6 Flags in the Jackson area (central Jersey) and Ocean City, Wildwood, and Cape May in the southeastern side (these are my favorite beach places to go, Wildwood Crest's boardwalk is awesome!)

Depending on transportation, you could easily hit NYC and Philly. South Street in Philly is pretty cool, and there's some fun bars scattered through the city (Finnigan's Wake is a mindfvck but easy sarging grounds). Up in western North Jersey you can do some pretty awesome hikes and outdoor type things.

****Just noticed you're only 17, you wont be able to hit the bars but hey, you can probably sneak into Atlantic City and at least get plastered in the casino bar without getting carded, just dont try to gamble too much.
 

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im staying newark and im thinking of taking advantage of this opportunity to improve my game. i heard that girls are more willing to have casual sex with guys tht are not from town. im thinking of doing some cold pproaching. how should i go about this?
 

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ha, girls are willing to hook up if your Italian...NJ sux, you are going to hate it theres a reason its called the armpit of america

i heard that girls are more willing to have casual sex with guys tht are not from town.
LOL keep dreaming rookie, canada girls are WAY better especially the Niagra tourists

if your gonna be in newark STAY IN THE IRON BOUND section, your less likely to get stabbed or in a fight.

QXT's is good club to hook up with hot goth chicks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't know even though I make fun of NJ all the time! I still find it to have some really good looking girls there, but almost everyone there hates it and can't wait to leave.

BTW I thought that NJ was the @$$crack of the USA. It smells like one :p

I'm from PA btw.

comic_relief
 

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well, i still want to make the most of this trip. this is likely to be my last chance in this place on earth. i am in newark btw. i tried jogging in the morning today to try to see if i can sarge. sadly, there were no hot girls to approach :(
 

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north jersey is whats up...we get a bad rap cuz of the damn long islanders and staten islanders who visit us ALL THE DAMN TIME... but ifyour in newark, hit up the portuguese section..stay away from jersey city, and njit, rutgers area, unless u wanna die.. go to hoboken, and nyc..only 20 min train ride away
 

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all the guidos migrate to seaside heights and the rest of the jersery shore this time of year so I wouldn't recommend chillen down there if ya hate guids. if u don't mind, check out surf club. if your in northern jersey check out the nyc/metro area. there are some good clubs around there that u might be able to get into.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sup guys, change in plans for me. I am now visiting Teaneck, New Jersey. Any good spots around here?
 

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If you don't mind a lot of guido's go to a club called Soundgarden in Lodi on Thursday for teen night. I go sometimes and the girls are usually really hot, but they might not like you if your not guido:box: .

Take the 1-1.5 hour drive to Six Flags and visit the best amusement park in the country. (Kinda Ka and El Toro!)

Take the 45 Minute drive to Mountain Creek Waterpark and have fun there for a day

Go to Point Pleasant beach (much better than seaside) and enjoy a nice beach and a good boardwalk (and hot girls)

Or if all else fails take the short drive or bus ride to NYC and hang their for the day.
 

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Touchout said:
Take the 1-1.5 hour drive to Six Flags and visit the best amusement park in the country. (Kinda Ka and El Toro!)
El toro is the scariest rollar coaster that I have ever been on.

Six flags is a really nice park, but not the best that I have ever been to. I really enjoyed Islands of Adventure in Orlando, FL. I digress though.

No matter what, you will enjoy the trip.

comic_relief
 

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comic_relief said:
El toro is the scariest rollar coaster that I have ever been on.

Six flags is a really nice park, but not the best that I have ever been to. I really enjoyed Islands of Adventure in Orlando, FL. I digress though.

No matter what, you will enjoy the trip.

comic_relief
c0-sign 100 percent this post here..

Uh,get out to the shore,hoboken,seacaucus if you have kids and of course the city..and stay away from Newark & Jersey City..lolololololol....
 

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^also,jerey gardens is the mall to be here...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jersey Girls ain't Trash.

(trash gets picked up.)

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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what does everyone have against guidos? Thats a derogatory slang term for itailians right? I'll hae to check out some of these other boardwalks mentioned tho.
 

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In america alot of white-white-white people don't consider Italians,Hispanics,Portugeuese,& Brazilians to be the same as them...

They'll bring out the "oh its not that,its cuz they're ghetto" excuse out..really it's cuz they're racist and don't like that "dark" look Italins & Hispanics have.

When's the last time you seen an italian outside selling coke?Exactly,it's just racism.
 
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