"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Most of the guys (20’s & 30’s) were looksmatched. Most were soft, beta looking guys. 5/10. None of the classic ‘sexy’ attributes like being jacked, hunter eyes, chisled jaw, tall…. Yet they had a decent woman who seemed into them.
I’m struggling to reconcile the ‘epidemic of sexless men’ with what I see.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
You don't see the sexless men they don't leave their homes.
Also just because a girl is "with" a guy doesn't mean she respects him or isn't exercising options in secret. Women like beta men they can control for that reason. Maybe some of them were genuine relationships though. I never assume the nature of their relationship. Half of the "couples" you see in public could easily be friendzoned guys.
MatureDJ
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It's OVER for StayAtHomeCels.
BergischerLöwe
Master Don Juan
This is a point I've brought up on here numerous times. Very often in public you see attractive women in relationships with guys who have no masculine attributes and look like they could be knocked over by a stiff breeze
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.