“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Hamurabimbi

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I don’t get it. I’m in, arguably’ one of the most difficult dating environments for men in NA. Yesterday the GF & I went to The City and Golden Gate Park. There were so many couples.
Most of the guys (20’s & 30’s) were looksmatched. Most were soft, beta looking guys. 5/10. None of the classic ‘sexy’ attributes like being jacked, hunter eyes, chisled jaw, tall…. Yet they had a decent woman who seemed into them.
I’m struggling to reconcile the ‘epidemic of sexless men’ with what I see.
 

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I don’t get it. I’m in, arguably’ one of the most difficult dating environments for men in NA. Yesterday the GF & I went to The City and Golden Gate Park. There were so many couples.
Most of the guys (20’s & 30’s) were looksmatched. Most were soft, beta looking guys. 5/10. None of the classic ‘sexy’ attributes like being jacked, hunter eyes, chisled jaw, tall…. Yet they had a decent woman who seemed into them.
I’m struggling to reconcile the ‘epidemic of sexless men’ with what I see.
You don't see the sexless men they don't leave their homes.

Also just because a girl is "with" a guy doesn't mean she respects him or isn't exercising options in secret. Women like beta men they can control for that reason. Maybe some of them were genuine relationships though. I never assume the nature of their relationship. Half of the "couples" you see in public could easily be friendzoned guys.
 

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I don’t get it. I’m in, arguably’ one of the most difficult dating environments for men in NA. Yesterday the GF & I went to The City and Golden Gate Park. There were so many couples.
Most of the guys (20’s & 30’s) were looksmatched. Most were soft, beta looking guys. 5/10. None of the classic ‘sexy’ attributes like being jacked, hunter eyes, chisled jaw, tall…. Yet they had a decent woman who seemed into them.
I’m struggling to reconcile the ‘epidemic of sexless men’ with what I see.
This is a point I've brought up on here numerous times. Very often in public you see attractive women in relationships with guys who have no masculine attributes and look like they could be knocked over by a stiff breeze
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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