"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get Busy Livin' said:
Naes420, can you help talk me through what it is like? Does the guy just chat to you about things or is there more involved?
televison and idiots say they just ask you a bunch of questions..which is not true


they get you doing fun things, they teach you theres better things to do then drugs (in my case) and help you find what makes you happy and the best part is that they are pretty decent people and i actualy had alot of fun talking with my counseler..at first time it might seem wierd but after the first few visits it starts to get more comfredeble and yes they do ocasionaly chat (well alot actualy) but its to analize what makes you happy and etc. and they are decent people as a i said

there are occasional assignments like rate your mood for each day and stuff like that it seems wierd but its all for the best at the end of the line

i would really recomend it because i had suicide thoughts going into my counceling as well and its helps a ton..in a way i owe my life to it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get Busy Livin' said:
Just 15, only JUST. And thanks Naes I might check it out and try it.
thats perfect then, i was around 16 when i went in (been smoking since about 6th grade) and now im a few weeks from 18 ...definatly check it out i swear u are gonna get a whole new perspective on life and your life will get a ton better
 
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