Very Very Very Confusing Chick

[DJ_SUPREME]

ok so there is this girl(she works with me but i dont see her that often at work) that ive liked ive been interested for sometime now... and just recently she broke up with her boyfriend.

So basically I decided to talk to her before I went on my vacation... which was very recent. We talked about some random stuff and she randomlly asked me if I liked her well i was quit suprised by that question so i kind of schoked and just said ahhh yea I guess and laughed. So we cointinued to talk about random stuff. lil later I ask her what she is doing this weekend and she said working and stuff like that I was like ooh well lemme get your number so when i get back i can call u and we can do something. She seemed very happy when I wasked and she gave me her number. and got seperate ways. All of this happend after work and she actually approached me.

ok so i get back from my vacation and I goto work to c what days I work and I see her. SO we talk a little but it was very akward cause of my friend was right next to me and he was kind of **** blockin. but he wasnt hittin on her. ok so mentions a friend of mine at work helping her with her area and im like yea so? and she is just goes onto another subject... so i just tell her that ill call her later that nite. So i called around 11:30ish and she did not pick up... she calls me back around 12ish and im taking a shower and then i went out so when i get back i see i have a missed call. in the message she telles me to call her back but it was around 2am so i decided not to.

next day i call her around 3.. i forgot taht she was at work so she called me back lil later so we joke around a little and then I asked her what she was doing tonite she said that she doesnt know but she might go to her frirnds house to spend the night. i was like ok cool and then she telles me that her parents are gone for the nite so then she goes into sayig that how bad of a girl she is and im like why? and she says that she is spending the night at her bfs house... i was like ooooooooookkkkk.. so we cointinued to talk about how bad she was for like 2 min and then I said that i had to go. I havent talked to her since and **** was a day ago I will prob see her at work tomorrow.


some of my good friends are thinking that she is trying to get me jelous. and i know personally that she wouldnt spend the night at her bfs house(if she has one) because she is one of those goody goody girls her last relationship lasted a good while and the barelly ever even made out... and she liked the guy alot too.

So what are your opinions about this... Im not going to next her just yet cause I still might have a chance and I belive she likes me.... but just tell me how you guys would handle this situation...

thnx

 

[Black_Italian]

Originally posted by DJ_SUPREME
some of my good friends are thinking that she is trying to get me jelous. and i know personally that she wouldnt spend the night at her bfs house(if she has one) because she is one of those goody goody girls her last relationship lasted a good while and the barelly ever even made out... and she liked the guy alot too.

I know allot of "goody goody" girls who have hidden secrets 1 in particular good girl who had dildos and porn in her drawer. You cant judge a girl like that just because she seems good it doesn’t mean she wouldn’t spend the night at her bfs. Id even go as far as to say that she is more likely to spend the night at her BFs because she’s is "goody goody". A slut would **** and go home a good girl would spend the night there.

As for you, you sound a lil like a AFC and you sound like you’re in the friends zone but at times it sounds like she’s into you. Stop being so friendly with her be assertive and tell her you’re taking her out one night.

Ninja out

 

[flexion_]

Continue on as if the BF comment never came up and ask her out. Stop doing all the call her and talk crap just ask her out.

Sounds just like a young attention ***** in the making.

 

[DJ_SUPREME]

thanks for your advice...not sure about being an afc but I dono im just gona go talkto her and tell her that i want to bang her lol jk

 

[DJ_SUPREME]

Originally posted by flexion_
Continue on as if the BF comment never came up and ask her out. Stop doing all the call her and talk crap just ask her out.

Sounds just like a young attention ***** in the making.

here is the thing ive talked to her on the phone once... in person 3 times so we havent really talked much but we flirst all the time