"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Very Interesting Situation:D

ballinNY

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So i just transferred to Florida State and I love it here. There girls are galore and all hot as ****. Ive been going to this bar that is the Spot around here and am able to pull any girl i want at this bar. Last week I had two different girls one who is a hb9 and the other an hb8 all over me. I would take turns going back in forth making out with both of them. It was great. I ended up going home with the hb8 and doing my job ;). The thing is I like to pimp girls and never want to get tied down but on the other hand I don't want to get a bad reputation because most of the girls at the bar are friends. I want this to continue for a long time and keep doing my thang. any advice on how to handle these gals for the weeks to come?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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Never use the word relationship with any of them.

If they ask the inevitable question "what are we?" answer "we are two consenting adults having fun".

Do whatever you can to not burn any bridge with any of these chicks dude.

Just be DJ but also be polite if they spill out any emotional vomit on you about wanting more blah blah blah.

Say you understand their feelings and re-iterate no where did you ever mention having a relationship with the girl, you are just a guy that is out to have fun basically.

Coddle and comfort an upset chick the best you can and she likely will not hate you and kill your chances at nailing her friends too.

Dry her little tear filled eyes if you have to but do not lose your frame which is DJ out to have fun and that is it.

Don't enter a chick's reality of how she thinks things are supposed to be, don't enter into or imply you are entering into any relationship chick agenda and you should be fine.
 
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