"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SmoothTalker

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Okay man, you're starting to sound like a troll. People have addressed all of your concerns several times over again, and you haven't paid one shred of attention and just keep spouting the same crap over and over again.

You have a concern, read the above posts that address them. Then go **** your girlfriend. Otherwise go join the church and be celibate forever.

Just in case you're too lazy to read, I'll summerize again.

If you're honest about your size, it is average to very slightly above average. How can this not be 'adequate'? It wouldn't make sense biologically if only the top 10% of men were adequate, or else the average penis size would be 10 inches by evolution.

Second, a bad sex life (which you have no reason to resign yourself to since you're decently equipped, and you can get a girl off without taking your pants off anyway) is still 100 times better than NO sex life, which is what you're giving your girl. She will for sure cheat or leave if you give her nothing!

The circumcision thing, as people have said, is a non issue. It may turn a girl off in a one night stand type of scenario, but a girl in a serious relationship will definitely have her priorities elsewhere than a flap of skin unless she's very ****ed up.

Finally, take things girls say with a grain of salt. What they say and how they actually act/feel are often exact opposites.

That, and many (especially inexperienced ones like yours) don't know much about what's normal.

If you once again just spout the same crap over again instead of considering what I and other posters have said, then I will label you a troll and ignore, and suggest other posters do the same.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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