"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very drunk girls

OlympicTim

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whats up boys.

Anyways just got home from the bar. Made out with this girl I know from high school (her friend too ill post something in my journal)

Anyways so then I found out she has a boyfriend where she goes to school and she started crying about how she doesnt want to be alone tonight and begging me to come over. Obviously we would of smashed from her trying to make out with me kino etc etc.

Anyways i had her friend come pick her up and went home alone.

You guys think I did the right thing or should I have just ****ed her and let her deal with her boyfriend
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lozboss

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Tim- you did the right thing.

Others would say- "pump and dump her Tim" but my view is:

1. Do you want the drama of a jealous boyfriend when he finds out?
2. You're doing a journal about your change to be a better person. Continue to be better in everything you can do.
 

Jetleg

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Couldn't agree with Lozboss more, its too much to deal with it, and quite risky too if she has issues (rape accusations and whatever)

F*ckung a chick that lays on bed like a dead doll is not that fun anyway, if you ask me.
 

Julian

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What a dumbslut. You did the right thing. Overly drunk bishes..cant stand em.

I've had instances with a chick where we were talking and hanging out, maybe got to second base...and they end up hitting me up when they are tipsy to fuk...sometimes chicks need the alcohol to loosen em up and give them the ovaries to come ride this d1ck. in that case its ok, if I know her already and shes not obliterated. as far as random drunk skanks go...not if they are crying/being emotional...BIG red flag.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fastlife

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The relationship thing is one you have to decide for yourself (for me, it's not worth it).

But if I met my personal 10/10, everything I could ever want in a female, at a bar or a party and she's drunk, I don't care if she's begging for it, I'm not sleeping with her. At that point you're a throwaway **** (could be anybody), the sex won't be great (probably not even good), and you've given a stranger the keys to potentially ruin your life. To me a guy putting himself in that situation is the epitome of desperation. If you ever party with hot girls in mixed company start paying attention to how the guys around you start acting if one of the girls gets drunk--****ing pathetic.
 
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