"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vegas!

Borknagar

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So, since Vegas isn't too expensive to get to, how many people would be interested in a big meet up sometime in the future?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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Moved to the wingman forum.

I'm down. It's not that far, and I think it's about time for another Vegas trip anyway. I'd be interested to see some SS west coasters.

-Scars
 

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Yeah sorry, only posted it in gen cause people might bypass it thinking I ment for people living in vegas. But yeah I say so cause ****, you can get a hotel for cheap there, and flights aren't too expensive, and it would be badass to have kind of our own bootcamp with some of the senior members or those with some of the best game, Kinda a thought, as some members either don't have wings in their area and might be open to vegas if a bunch of us were to be there, as well as being able to get feed back from several people. I think as a whole those who could make it could benefit greatly, without spending the quite heafty rip off price most bootcamps go for. Heck if we could get some chicks that know about all this to show up that would be awesome!
 
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