"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Valuable advice on OLD profiles

backseatjuan

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This is a value of having female friends. Have your female friend look and review your profile. You will get considerable better results that way, if you got no hits, you will get hits. Some things she's good at, others she is not. Things she's good at will be your photos, all profile sections including who you looking for. One area she's bad at will be couple of words about yourself or your greeting, that you will have to do yourself, don't leave it blank. Having a girl review your profile is perhaps even more effective than taking dj advice on how to do it, imo anyway. Give it a shot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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