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Don Juan
Personally, I feel that no DJ should celebrate Valentines Day. There are a few reasons for this.
1. On Valentines Day, it is basically mandatory to get your girls something. However, usually the girl will not get you something. Therefore, not only is this needless supplication, but you do not even make her feel good for a little while because it is "mandatory".
2. Especially in a new relationship, the word "love" is thrown around a lot at Valentines Day. You don't want to give a new gf the impression that you are already in "love" with her.
3. If your dating multiple girls non-exclusively, all your romantic love crap will appear ridiculous when you're dating other girls.
4. If you want to do something romantic for a girl who you've been exclusive with for more than three months you are better off to do it at a time where she won't expect it.
And here is the most important reason:
4. Have you ever seen any of those commercials, where a man gives a woman a diamond ring, or a box of chocolates, or flowers, and then she says "I love this man" or kisses him or whatever? Personally I think that these are the sleaziest commercials on the planet. All of the industries that benefit off of Valentines Day play off of the desperate and supplicative tendencies of AFCs to make money. They try to tell you that if you only buy a girl these chocolates, or these flowers, or this ring, then she will love and have sex with you. We all know thats not the way it works. But remember when you were an AFC, and the pain you felt when a girl who you supplicated to and bought endless romantic gifts for dumped you for some jerk. Do you really want to patronize an industry this sleazy? I think not.
Just some thoughts
1. On Valentines Day, it is basically mandatory to get your girls something. However, usually the girl will not get you something. Therefore, not only is this needless supplication, but you do not even make her feel good for a little while because it is "mandatory".
2. Especially in a new relationship, the word "love" is thrown around a lot at Valentines Day. You don't want to give a new gf the impression that you are already in "love" with her.
3. If your dating multiple girls non-exclusively, all your romantic love crap will appear ridiculous when you're dating other girls.
4. If you want to do something romantic for a girl who you've been exclusive with for more than three months you are better off to do it at a time where she won't expect it.
And here is the most important reason:
4. Have you ever seen any of those commercials, where a man gives a woman a diamond ring, or a box of chocolates, or flowers, and then she says "I love this man" or kisses him or whatever? Personally I think that these are the sleaziest commercials on the planet. All of the industries that benefit off of Valentines Day play off of the desperate and supplicative tendencies of AFCs to make money. They try to tell you that if you only buy a girl these chocolates, or these flowers, or this ring, then she will love and have sex with you. We all know thats not the way it works. But remember when you were an AFC, and the pain you felt when a girl who you supplicated to and bought endless romantic gifts for dumped you for some jerk. Do you really want to patronize an industry this sleazy? I think not.
Just some thoughts
