"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Valentines day. For those who believe in it only.

ThunderMaverick

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I got a great girl. Period. I would say damn near perfect relationship wise. Either that or we just get along very well.

We're comming up on our 1 year anniversary, but Valentine's Day is comming up.

I want to do something nice for her. I want to take her someplace romantic, all that good shit. Like I said, I want to do something great for her because she deserves it. I've been jobless, doing side acting projects and looking for other jobs and I have been just plain broke.

I started a new job and I don't get paid until the 16th of February. Yeah. So I'll be BROKE totally until then.

My question is, what can I do romantically? I mean I will have enough money to drive around. But resturants and movies are out.

I'm sad, I know.

So any other suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WORKEROUTER

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Why not just work for a temp agency for a day or so on your off day, get like 70 bucks, and take her out?
 
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