"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vadation: Man's killer.

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I saw this on my FaceBook feed and thought it would be interesting to post here. I don't think this only applies to street cred seeking individuals. What's your take on it?

"Validation is a MAN's silent KILLER....

Men I wanna make YOU aware of something very dangerous that most are doing and unaware of...

A lot of us are doing 25 to LIFE because of how FAR we go to seek validation from other men..

Confused.?

Who can sell the MOST weed or dope?
Who has the MOST cars
Who's pulling the baddest chicks?

Who's the first to snap, fight or pull the trigger??

Who has the CRAZIEST reputation.??

We go above and beyond to impress and seek "validation" from other men listen to me this **** is DANGEROUS!!!!!!
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‪#‎HarshReality‬

None of your homies will ever come visit,

Ever put money on your books,

Ever write you a letter,

Ever take your collect calls,

They won't even PRAY for you....

You get time tell them to hold your girl or wifey down...
Hold her down.??? Yeah ok.! (( fill in the blanks ))

In these streets, you go out of your way to "impress" them!
When you need them the MOST!

They will leave you for dead....

This is why "Validation is a MANS silent killer."..."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In America, because of feminism, because of how women are, men tend to do stupid things. Can you even imagine to be able to get women without let's say, gym, car, job, career, nice body, game? I bet not. I bet you think you have to measure up in some way, and those of you that do measure up in some way, will find out that you still not up to par and still can't get women. However, in a normal society, getting women should be easy as walking up to them and introducing yourself - of course you won't get every single one, daaa, but just keep trying, and eventually, usually in couple of weeks, you will have a girlfriend.
 
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I understand what you are saying man. I recently moved to Cali. I've never seen a group of people so body conscious. Then when I watch the TV and see all the hot people still not happy and satisfied with each other. I wonder what chance do I have, lol. I prefer not to think about it but just move on with my life despite all this. I've met quite a few decent HB 6.5-7.5 and I know once I'm settled I could pull a few of them more permanently.
 
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This is Justin Erwin, he is native American from Pine Ridge reservation, he decided to move http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgcUaHZWJio :up:

He says, I consider Russia paradise compared to United States, people don't understand it, all their life they listen to what they are told by mass media and propaganda, they believe everything they are told about Russia, although it's time for them to open their eyes.... open your eyes, all they tell you about Russia and Japan and other countries is lie, you go there, and you will find out the truth.

The truth man, learning game is good for your career, it is good to know psychology to advance your career. Women though, it is best to be genuine, and if the women aren't ****ed up, you can just walk up to them, and open the door to your next best great awesome one of a time for life relationship. :up:
 
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Wow, that's NOT my reality. Maybe a black dude's but I like to think I have a little more common sense than that.

I definitely don't live to impress other guys by shooting people or fighting and neither do any of my friends, white, black, whatever.

That sounds very young and ghetto and probably unlike anything anybody here experiences after the age of 22 or so.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FairShake said:
Wow, that's NOT my reality. Maybe a black dude's but I like to think I have a little more common sense than that.

I definitely don't live to impress other guys by shooting people or fighting and neither do any of my friends, white, black, whatever.

That sounds very young and ghetto and probably unlike anything anybody here experiences after the age of 22 or so.
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I was thinking the exact same thing. After my teenage years, peer-pressure was pretty much a non-issue.


Man's trouble with validation is that we're constantly seeking it from a woman.
 
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