Vacation with chick

[Mozilla]

Hey guys,


I am about to take a vacation with this chick. She is a good friend of mine and a total hottie. But she only sees me as a friend. She keeps calling me her 'little brother' (she is one year older) which pisses me off. Anyways we are going away together for the weekend, need some ideas on what I can do to score

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

More info is needed..

Where are you guys going?

For what?

Is it a group of you guys going or is it just the two of you?

Who initiated what?

 

[Mozilla]

Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
More info is needed..

Where are you guys going?

For what?

Is it a group of you guys going or is it just the two of you?

Who initiated what?

-we're going to a national park.

-going cuz we both have never been

-just the two of us. she invited me.

normally I'd be all over her, but she has more than once treated me as her girlfriend. she keeps asking me to introduce her to some good looking guys!

 

[Mozilla]

c'mon u bastards! HELP!!!

 

[Phrozen]

She thinks your gay if shes asking you to hook her up.

 

[PeeGee]

I suggest you make a move on the first night. That way when (and not if) she rejects you, the rest of the trip you will both feel like crap. Oh and expect that she suddenly forgot to turn off her oven or something retarded.

No really, you should either make a move before this event. That way if she somehow rejects you (and I would blame that on you not establishing yourself as potential sex-mate earlier), she or you can cancel the trip post haste and not waste anybody's time.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

First off...don't pay for sh*t..if she's giving you the LJBF crap and SHE invited YOU..then the tab goes to her too.

Personally...I think she has moderate IL in you...I think if you play it right you can win.

The reason she keeps giving you the "You're just like a lil brother" routine isn't the fact that she see's you as a friend. She's giving you the younger brother routine to put into her head that going out with a younger guy is wrong. But she sooo wants to...the invite with you two alone is an obvious sign.

Women are illogical...especially when it comes to dating younger men. Women logic tells them that they need an older fella...a fella who is more mature, polished, and doesn't do the lil kiddie things a younger man does.

What I would do is play to your strengths being younger. Be C/F about it. When she mentions "you're just like a younger brother...or you're soo young" come back with "yea..I'm young...but I make up with it with my stamina"

Insert a little KINO and guide her hands to your six pac....and her logical thinking now becomes emotional.

Again...her asking you to hook her up with other guys is just a ******** ploy to try to deter you. An AFC would take it as a slap in the face...

Instead..when she says that you should hook her up with other guys...come back with another C/F remark like "What don't think you can handle my stamina eh?" KINO motion her hand to your body...."Yea...maybe you should hook me up with your girlfiends...I love dating older women."

Come back with a remark like this and it knocks her off her pedistal about the whole age difference thing.

You have to remember...her IL is there...you have to do things to raise her IL and make her stop thinking logically..and start doing the emotional/sexual thinking.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

HOLD IT RIGHT THERE

do not make a move on her on holiday, there is too much risk. It is 100% obvious that she is not attracted to you come on man she said you are like a little brother to her and is aksing you to hook her up with a freind of yours. and is treating you as a girlfreind, is you hit on her you will mess up the whole holiday mak eit really uncomfterable and it could be weeks till things get back to normal and she will never forget it.

When you know a girl is not intrested you can not hit on her that is bad when there is so much to loose. You have to change to make her like you, this can not be over a weke or 2 because it just wont happen she will see you are just changing to make her like you and will see that the whole time before you really wanted to fcuk her.

this has to be a gradual change to make her like you, over many months, so personaly i would just go for another girl, its much easier as a girl you do not know will like you straight away if you do your stuff right but this freind of yours, well she will be a very hard catch because if you start treating her like you are attracted to her it will freak her out because you are good freinds so you should really look for some 1 else if you can, and just have fun with this girl on holiday as freinds