Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hi Murk,Called it
The ref definitely saved him from an embarrassing KOGreat fight, right man won.
Was surreal to see the Gypsy King getting rag dolled in the 9th by a cruiserwt.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wasn't the 1st time either. (Wilder 1)The ref definitely saved him from an embarrassing KO
I think after Deontay lost to Parker he was also exposed as a bum/basketball player. He's fighting Zhang next, I think he has a good chance of winning as Zhang can't evade that big right hand.wish i would have posted my pick about this one.I was rooting for u all the way after all his last wins.The best man one but i have respect for both !!Hope he fights doentay next and does the same cant stand that guy.
Wilder is a terrible fighter, he has no good wins on his record arguably except Ortiz who was 40 years old and also has no good wins. Parker and Zhang have exposed him. Fury went life and death with him 3 times . Fury got sparked by Ngannou in his debut boxing match . Fury nearly had his eye taken out by rank 30 Wallin (ref should have stopped that fight). Fury got sparked by Cunningham (smaller than Usyk). Fury lost to John McDermott in their first fight. Fury recently was humiliated and KO’d standing by Usyk.Fury got robbed in the first fight, which he clearly won.
he was not protected by the ref, that’s sour grapes.
Wilder is a crap fighter, he waddles around the ring winding up his right hand as it’s the only thing he has.
Judges/ref in all fights helped Wilder, the count was a normal count, the only reason the yanks don’t like it is they knew the only way that deadbeat was going to win was one lucky punch, and desperately needed a quick count.
That judge who scored the first fight for the Dosser should never ref again. Anyone who watched that fight knew Fury made Wilder look like a pub slugger.
Usyk won that fight recently but don’t try to rewrite that absolute deadbeat boxer to have had refs against him when if it wasn’t so corrupt in his favour it should have been 0-3 Fury.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Uh oh Fury fanboy alert. "Dosser" .. LMAOFury got robbed in the first fight, which he clearly won.
he was not protected by the ref, that’s sour grapes.
Wilder is a crap fighter, he waddles around the ring winding up his right hand as it’s the only thing he has.
Judges/ref in all fights helped Wilder, the count was a normal count, the only reason the yanks don’t like it is they knew the only way that deadbeat was going to win was one lucky punch, and desperately needed a quick count.
That judge who scored the first fight for the Dosser should never ref again. Anyone who watched that fight knew Fury made Wilder look like a pub slugger.
Usyk won that fight recently but don’t try to rewrite that absolute deadbeat boxer to have had refs against him when if it wasn’t so corrupt in his favour it should have been 0-3 Fury.