Using Your Ex As Leverage

[BrainDamage92]

I know this is female territory, but hell, it seems so easy and logical.

So, if girls know your were with a drop dead gorgeous girl for a long time, will it make them wetter, or is it something to conceal? Im talking a girl who doesnt even need makup, showing her body or duckfaces, just seing her eyes makes males fall on their knees And is keeping this ex on FB so that other plates can see her actually a good idea, couse I recently re-added her on FB, heck I have her mother and father there and even had to talk to her mother over something recently, why not, its so pathetic I deleted her in the first place but I had to do it so I dont get used as levereage. Couse she be the kinda girl who talks on the phone with you like: "How are you?" "Fine", then she goes to whoever fool would buy into her crap and tell him "My ex is abusing me over the phone" or whatever. I know her all too well.

So now I have to deal with the whole "Better post gorgeous selfies and what not and make sure I let him know I have a new fool to make the ex jerk feel bad about leaving me." Meanwhile Im DJing but I wont sink as low as uploading pics with other girls and what not. I dont like posting pics on FB anyway.

This is exactly the kind of **** I removed her from there in the first place, couse I know what she is capable off. And cmon, I though after all this time shed be over this childish ****. But no, since I added her she started doing it and its obvious as ****.

Now dont get me wrong, I have no intentions of being with the ex again, couse if one more crazy love tour happens I will have to kill her when its time to leave again.

But is it a leverage or a turnoff for other females? If I dont talk to her, dont do anything at all, just have her there for others to see, would it be all good, and would it be good for the game or is this **** playing with fire?

This is a pic of hers she uploaded yesterday apparently: http://www.anony.ws/image/DAEh so you see what Im talking about. And the body is model-like

The other fact I though about just now is it will push the girl Im currently dating (lightly) away. Or make her want me more? **** I may have ****ed up, sort me out...

 

[Bingo-Player]

in my experiences its always good to let them know what your used to used too

women are EXTREMELY jealous and territorial creatures they cannot stand the idea of another woman , but at the same time because they are emotional train wrecks they fvcking love the idea of having someone to hate and a bit of competition

its makes it fun for them

i say leave the ex for all to see ,she looks kinda hot and in my opinion can only add to your value

 

[BrainDamage92]

So I didnt **** up? Nice.

Ill just keep it this way, just having her there. I've hidden what pics I had with her, I had an old pic there, so this old aquaintance from highschool Im dating currently asked "Who is this girl there?" on our first date, heck I had forgotten about this thank god she reminded me to hide this ****.

She, on the other hand has old pics with me in her profile, but idc.


**** I have old friends I didnt see (drifted apart) while I was with her who havent seen her too say "Oh your ex is hot" after I re-added her.

This is kinda ****ty couse I be all thinking "Well ye, shes pretty, but..." and start badmouthing her. Its not nice. I dont wanna be reminded of her at all but **** why take advantage of this, it will be like, her first selfless act for me haha.

 

[Zion]

It's social proof. If you have a hot ex then she knows what's up.

 

[Chromeo]

I say do whats best for you. If you feel seeing your ex on facebook is aggravating you then it may be best for you to hide or delete her.

Don't add her for "social proof". In my opinion social validation is really just a form of neediness. "Everyone needs to know I date hot chicks!" Na. Everyone should know you are a good person, with a strong sense of self worth and a good judge of the same.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Omg yes the BS started she texted me a "thumbs up" emote,

so Im like "?"

shes like "Im sorry I send it by mistake"

And you know how when you click on some name in your friend list o the side a dialog chatbox appears so bish was stalking me, I mean she was checking me out.

I called her out with humour ofc (something she doesnt understand), and told her I get leverage by having her in the friendlist but I dont want to talk to her, and again, nothing a bish of this kind cant take but the truth.

She was like "No I didnt stalk anything" "I dont like your attitude" "You are very offensive" "WHat have I done to deserve..."

Oh God the same old toxic sludge, good thing I left her: "Im sad, Im depressed, Im offended, everything is your fault, I deserve only the best". I wish she could just cut the crap and be real with me, but ye psycho realm. You deserve what *****? What did you do to deserve a good treatement? Nagging BPD hellhound. Ffs...

And the way she tries to stay gramatically correct when she writes - bish doesnt know the multiplication table I mean WTF? She doesnt even have the capacity to grasp the fact I understand her perfectly and know what she is on the inside so she cant cut the crap now wtf?

This will end badly...