"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The title is a little vague, so heres some more details.
I am a TA (teachers assistant) for an english class so I do busywork, enter
grades, etc. At the end of the hour today a girl who has shown ioi's @ me asked if i could enter some extra credit or something for her, and then said nevermind ill ask u tommorow.
I dont wanna just give in and be a nice guy, i want her to work for it.

What are some c/f or good responses for when she asks?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"nevermind I'll ask you tomorrow"
is this part of your IOI or did you forget to mention anything?

because she probably won't ask you tomorrow lol.. thats how girls are.
if she does, be like "okay, you've gotta earn it first though" then give her something to do for you haha... be creative but don't go too far unless you're confident it'll work lmao...

gl though.. and I hope this is a highschool you're TA for.
 
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Isn't that indirect prostitution? Give me a good grade, and I'll blow you?
 
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^^ha I honestly think there are some girls in my class who would do that... kinda sad.... for them


Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
"nevermind I'll ask you tomorrow"
is this part of your IOI or did you forget to mention anything?
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she asked me after the bell and i was busy working on a paper due the next hour so i didnt really have time to answer her, and she said something about asking me tommorow about it.

anyways thx for the replies
 
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haha tell us what happens then... doubt she'll remember unless she wants it badly :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What a [stupid] worhe.
 
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is she supposed to be working for her grade or working for affection here?
why would she get extra points for a grade for just asking nicely for the extra points?

if you give her extra points for nothing, she will ask you again, and possibly tell her friends so they can ask you too. she won't be learning anything.

we don't need another woman getting through life on her good looks instead of earning her own grade. the only thing she learns from it is how to manipulate another man.
 
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