"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VikingKing

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A lot of people like to compare themselves to others and complain how they don't have a certain "advantage" that others do. Whether is complaining about your race, or how your not good looking enough, or your broke. This is just an excuse to fail and give up, which is not masculine at all.

Every one is different. We all have different tools at our disposal. So instead of looking at a successful poster here, and saying oh well he has attributes that I don't, instead look at the similarities. What do you have in common with the guy who is having, or at least has had success.

If your not good looking fine. But you probably make decent money (chicks dig money), and you can learn game by practicing it.

So when your making these pseudo arguments about what women do or do not like keep in mind that (if you have no experience) women do not think the way you do. What you think they want or like, is different then what they think they want, which is also different then what they actually want (if they even know).

Keep sh!t stupid simple.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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