Usage of Kino?

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

Can too much Kino sway you into the FRIENDZONE?. Thoughts?

 

[Ice882]

platanoic pvssy kino....yeah. If you poke girls and giggle and do feminine gay sh1t they won't take you seriously as anything more than a sexually stunted friend. Intimate kino is never gonna get you in the FZ.

 

[Ease]

Lol.

Yes if you're brushing her hair, no if your rubbing her thighs.

 

[Ice882]

lol no slappy slap hand games either. That takes you directly to TWO FZ's--Friendzone AND F@gzone.

Sorry gay people, you know what I mean when I say f@g...

 

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

I mean like giving her the High five, fist spud and those sought of kino tactics? ..still spiraling down FRIENDSHIP STREET?

(Limit exceeded), Aha I don't mean throughout the date or just after it. I mean after a few good dates and everything is going how it should. Just a high-five asif the Lakers just ally-hooped something crazy. Its worked in the past for me, I just want to know everybodies thoughts on certain kino tactics.

So in other words your saying you cant be COOL / CRAZY with a chick or "YOURSELF" without it damaging your progress and pitting you into FZ? Thats the way I am, I like high fives, five handed punch-spuds when something has gained my approval.

 

[Ice882]

Yes, those still get you FZed. What do you give to a girl after a date that you are not interested in at all, or the other way around? A high five.

 

[base2ball2boy2]

Hmmm... Interesting thought.

As I was reading through the replies, my attention was drawn to this comment by Ice882:

If you poke girls and giggle and do feminine g8y sh1t they won't take you seriously as anything more than a sexually stunted friend.

This got me thinking. Females are very physical beings. Girls that have friends who are girls tend to touch a lot, embrace, etc, etc. But their touches are in a more empathetic manner, a more caring manner, so to say. For example:

Let's say Girl 1 is good friends with Girl 2. And Girl 1 is dating Guy ! (because us guys deserve a cool !).

So one day, Girl 1's puppy dies (Cue "Awwwwww"). Girl 1 goes over to Girl 2's house. Girl 1 spills the news to Girl 2. They hug. And to deal with the emotions, they proceed to talk about feelings. The next day, on a hot date with Guy !, she tells him of the sad news. They hug. The guy lingers over the topic for a minute, but quickly comforts her by getting her mind off the puppy situation (which is the correct thing to do).

So there were two points of kino here: between Girl 1 and 2, and between Girl 1 and Guy !. And from what I've seen from girl-girl hugs (and not in the most excellent way , girls tend to lean forward into their hugs. Their shoulders will come in first, then followed by the rest of their body. This embrace takes a rather submissive approach. With the shoulder approach, it kinda seems like a girl is bowing into the hug- which, needless to say, is a submissive act.

Meanwhile, a guy will hug a girl all at once, sort of smothering her in his body. This can exude as much caring emotion as the girl-girl hug, but the way the guy goes about it is completely different. He takes the girl INTO his arms, sending the subliminal message that she is safe in HIS arms, nonetheless, a very dominant message.

So therefore, we can state that girls and guys kino differently- for the sake of simplicity, we'll call it the guy's way and the girl's way.

If you take the route of feminine kino, a submissive, caring, touchy-feely kino, you will be associated with the feelings that she shares for her friends that are girls (as we saw in the puppy example), so therefore, she will move you into the friendzone. For this is just basic logic- he evokes feelings in me that I share with my friends. So therefore, he must be a friend.

But if you kino in the guy's way (dominant, confident), I am positive that this will NOT lead you into the Friends Zone. For you will evoke safe and secure feelings in her. And this is just basic evolutionary feeling- if a female finds a safe and secure place to be, she will naturally want to reproduce with him because their child will be able to grow up without harm.

But I've rambled! You asked if "too much" kino will lead you to the friends zone.

And I'm going to have to say, YES.

So by using too much guy's kino, I'm assuming you solely do guy's kino for an extended period of time that was extended way too long over the correct period of time (Just reread that, it makes sense). If you use girl's kino, you're pretty much in the Friend Zone from the start.

Here's why:
If you kino too much, too long, the girl will start to think of you as a tease. "My, he can't mean anything. He touches me like a real man, but he's just nothing! He doesn't move beyond kino and take me to the next step! I want a man that can sweep me off my feet, take me to new place, and do new things! That reminds me of that hunk of a guy, base2ball2boy2! Mmmm... I'm gonna have to change these panties!"

This goes back to the core logic of the DJ principle.

But why can I say this? Because it's happened to me. I just never took the time to put it into thought- so kudos, MAN_OF_TOMORROW.

 

[Ice882]

I mean like giving her the High five, fist spud and those sought of kino tactics? ..still spiraling down FRIENDSHIP STREET?

(Limit exceeded), Aha I don't mean throughout the date or just after it. I mean after a few good dates and everything is going how it should. Just a high-five asif the Lakers just ally-hooped something crazy. Its worked in the past for me, I just want to know everybodies thoughts on certain kino tactics.

So in other words your saying you cant be COOL / CRAZY with a chick or "YOURSELF" without it damaging your progress and pitting you into FZ? Thats the way I am, I like high fives, five handed punch-spuds when something has gained my approval.

Ok, well if there's context like a great sports play or something, and you've been dating the girl for a while then I think its fine...as long as its not the only thing you do. If you high five her and then give her a hug (an INTIMATE ONE, not one of those as$ out, we're-afraid-to-touch-our-lower-bodies-one) then it shouldn't cause any problems. Just make sure you don't limit your kino to friendship gestures only. A girl you're dating should be your friend too, so sharing an occasional "friend" moment is not bad for your game. People who disagree with that last sentence are wrong--just saying in advance.

 

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

Hmmm... Interesting thought.

As I was reading through the replies, my attention was drawn to this comment by Ice882:



This got me thinking. Females are very physical beings. Girls that have friends who are girls tend to touch a lot, embrace, etc, etc. But their touches are in a more empathetic manner, a more caring manner, so to say. For example:

Let's say Girl 1 is good friends with Girl 2. And Girl 1 is dating Guy ! (because us guys deserve a cool !).

So one day, Girl 1's puppy dies (Cue "Awwwwww"). Girl 1 goes over to Girl 2's house. Girl 1 spills the news to Girl 2. They hug. And to deal with the emotions, they proceed to talk about feelings. The next day, on a hot date with Guy !, she tells him of the sad news. They hug. The guy lingers over the topic for a minute, but quickly comforts her by getting her mind off the puppy situation (which is the correct thing to do).

So there were two points of kino here: between Girl 1 and 2, and between Girl 1 and Guy !. And from what I've seen from girl-girl hugs (and not in the most excellent way , girls tend to lean forward into their hugs. Their shoulders will come in first, then followed by the rest of their body. This embrace takes a rather submissive approach. With the shoulder approach, it kinda seems like a girl is bowing into the hug- which, needless to say, is a submissive act.

Meanwhile, a guy will hug a girl all at once, sort of smothering her in his body. This can exude as much caring emotion as the girl-girl hug, but the way the guy goes about it is completely different. He takes the girl INTO his arms, sending the subliminal message that she is safe in HIS arms, nonetheless, a very dominant message.

So therefore, we can state that girls and guys kino differently- for the sake of simplicity, we'll call it the guy's way and the girl's way.

If you take the route of feminine kino, a submissive, caring, touchy-feely kino, you will be associated with the feelings that she shares for her friends that are girls (as we saw in the puppy example), so therefore, she will move you into the friendzone. For this is just basic logic- he evokes feelings in me that I share with my friends. So therefore, he must be a friend.

But if you kino in the guy's way (dominant, confident), I am positive that this will NOT lead you into the Friends Zone. For you will evoke safe and secure feelings in her. And this is just basic evolutionary feeling- if a female finds a safe and secure place to be, she will naturally want to reproduce with him because their child will be able to grow up without harm.

But I've rambled! You asked if "too much" kino will lead you to the friends zone.

And I'm going to have to say, YES.

So by using too much guy's kino, I'm assuming you solely do guy's kino for an extended period of time that was extended way too long over the correct period of time (Just reread that, it makes sense). If you use girl's kino, you're pretty much in the Friend Zone from the start.

Here's why:
If you kino too much, too long, the girl will start to think of you as a tease. "My, he can't mean anything. He touches me like a real man, but he's just nothing! He doesn't move beyond kino and take me to the next step! I want a man that can sweep me off my feet, take me to new place, and do new things! That reminds me of that hunk of a guy, base2ball2boy2! Mmmm... I'm gonna have to change these panties!"

This goes back to the core logic of the DJ principle.

But why can I say this? Because it's happened to me. I just never took the time to put it into thought- so kudos, MAN_OF_TOMORROW.

This was just the answer I was looking for and MORE. Cheers dude!

 

[base2ball2boy2]

This was just the answer I was looking for and MORE. Cheers dude!

Glad I could be of assistance.
And cheers right back to ya!

*Chugs beer*
Ah! Refreshing!

 

[Sofomore]

Here's why:
If you kino too much, too long, the girl will start to think of you as a tease. "My, he can't mean anything. He touches me like a real man, but he's just nothing! He doesn't move beyond kino and take me to the next step! I want a man that can sweep me off my feet, take me to new place, and do new things! That reminds me of that hunk of a guy, base2ball2boy2! Mmmm... I'm gonna have to change these panties!"

This goes back to the core logic of the DJ principle.

But why can I say this? Because it's happened to me. I just never took the time to put it into thought- so kudos, MAN_OF_TOMORROW.

HAHAHA man that was good.

 

[prairiedog24]

a girl told me recently not to choke her when we hug. I couldn't tell if she was saying that as an observation (even though she likes it), or if she was genuinely irritated.

 

[Hughman]

All kino is good kino, but some better than other types.

 

[Igetit!]

Hmmm... Interesting thought.

As I was reading through the replies, my attention was drawn to this comment by Ice882:



This got me thinking. Females are very physical beings. Girls that have friends who are girls tend to touch a lot, embrace, etc, etc. But their touches are in a more empathetic manner, a more caring manner, so to say. For example:

Let's say Girl 1 is good friends with Girl 2. And Girl 1 is dating Guy ! (because us guys deserve a cool !).

So one day, Girl 1's puppy dies (Cue "Awwwwww"). Girl 1 goes over to Girl 2's house. Girl 1 spills the news to Girl 2. They hug. And to deal with the emotions, they proceed to talk about feelings. The next day, on a hot date with Guy !, she tells him of the sad news. They hug. The guy lingers over the topic for a minute, but quickly comforts her by getting her mind off the puppy situation (which is the correct thing to do).

So there were two points of kino here: between Girl 1 and 2, and between Girl 1 and Guy !. And from what I've seen from girl-girl hugs (and not in the most excellent way , girls tend to lean forward into their hugs. Their shoulders will come in first, then followed by the rest of their body. This embrace takes a rather submissive approach. With the shoulder approach, it kinda seems like a girl is bowing into the hug- which, needless to say, is a submissive act.

Meanwhile, a guy will hug a girl all at once, sort of smothering her in his body. This can exude as much caring emotion as the girl-girl hug, but the way the guy goes about it is completely different. He takes the girl INTO his arms, sending the subliminal message that she is safe in HIS arms, nonetheless, a very dominant message.

So therefore, we can state that girls and guys kino differently- for the sake of simplicity, we'll call it the guy's way and the girl's way.

If you take the route of feminine kino, a submissive, caring, touchy-feely kino, you will be associated with the feelings that she shares for her friends that are girls (as we saw in the puppy example), so therefore, she will move you into the friendzone. For this is just basic logic- he evokes feelings in me that I share with my friends. So therefore, he must be a friend.

But if you kino in the guy's way (dominant, confident), I am positive that this will NOT lead you into the Friends Zone. For you will evoke safe and secure feelings in her. And this is just basic evolutionary feeling- if a female finds a safe and secure place to be, she will naturally want to reproduce with him because their child will be able to grow up without harm.

But I've rambled! You asked if "too much" kino will lead you to the friends zone.

And I'm going to have to say, YES.

So by using too much guy's kino, I'm assuming you solely do guy's kino for an extended period of time that was extended way too long over the correct period of time (Just reread that, it makes sense). If you use girl's kino, you're pretty much in the Friend Zone from the start.

Here's why:
If you kino too much, too long, the girl will start to think of you as a tease. "My, he can't mean anything. He touches me like a real man, but he's just nothing! He doesn't move beyond kino and take me to the next step! I want a man that can sweep me off my feet, take me to new place, and do new things! That reminds me of that hunk of a guy, base2ball2boy2! Mmmm... I'm gonna have to change these panties!"

This goes back to the core logic of the DJ principle.

But why can I say this? Because it's happened to me. I just never took the time to put it into thought- so kudos, MAN_OF_TOMORROW.

FREAKIN' WOOOW DUDE.

I've never read or heard anything like that before in my ENTIRE LIFE.

I swear dude,it's like the more you learn,the more you find out just how little you know.

+1 rep.

 

[base2ball2boy2]

Awwww I'm blushing...

FREAKIN' WOOOW DUDE.

I've never read or heard anything like that before in my ENTIRE LIFE.

I swear dude,it's like the more you learn,the more you find out just how little you know.

+1 rep.

No thank you, kind sir! I'm impressed that I could stun a veteran DJ like that. You just made my day.