"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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URGENT:This happened a while back but I wanted to ask ASAP

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j8snx1

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Me and my girl had sex, to be straight-forward, at her place one time. It turns out that her sister (older) heard us talk about it and maybe heard a few other things, but yes she found out, but overall she was cool with it. She even joked around with my girlfriend that she'll get her some condoms for the next time.

I thought things were beginning to turn out for the better, but I thought wrong.

My girl's sister gets angry at her one day and she completely blurts out the fact that my girl and I had sex to their mom and grandma! When she told me about this I thought "Holy crap, I'm a dead man," especially because her mom and grandma did not take it so lightly.

To this day, her mom and grandma still probably hates me, and I've worked hard to build a good impression upon them both. I'm forbidden to go to their house now, from what my girl tells me, but she's still able to go to prom and come over to my place or go on dates with me.

Is there anything that I can do at this point to make it up to her family, or is it a lost cause?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WesCottII

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Well, I don't know about where you are, but (if she's 18 aswell) it's legal, so who gives a f*ck?

You need to earn their trust I guess, don't go grovelling round, do it by treating the girl right, and as she's still allowed to see you, shouldn't be a problem.
 
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dannowillbookem

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if they let her hangout with you still but just not at their house, they just dont want their daughter getting railed under their roof. try for very open, family things... tell her to see if you can get invited to a sunday lunch or some family thing... come attend the little brothers baseball game, help wash a car stuff like that. family guy shiit.
 
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Damian

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If you are in a serious relationship, sooner or later, they will have to simply accept it. On the other hand, just try to keep things on the down-low around the family. You should know that already. There's really nothing you could do to "make up" to the family, because it's not like you actually did anything wrong. The topic of sex is simply taboo in their family, I guess, so it's their problem with perception. If anything, just be nice to the family and hope things iron themselves out.

-Damian
 
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