Sorry for the new thread..
Here is the original thread that started this situation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114765
So I got some pretty good advice on dealing with this crazy situation where I am bangin this HOT as HB-9 at work (I know I broke a standard rule..she was persistant in getting me to bang her, finding me more intersting then her current live in BF at the time, so it just happened)
Long story short: She cheated on her live in BF to be with me, it has been some of the hottest sex - she is a straight self-admitted nympho, waxed p---y and all (every two weeks), she down for bj's and all kinds of other hot stuff. We both agreed that we were not BF/GF, and that we might date other peeps, but we were going to be F-buddies and no condoms...so we made adult based commitment to let each other know if we slept with anyone else that it would be with protection.
I f'd up and on a 1 night stand and my stuff went in with out a condom..(it ended with a condom..and the chick...claimed to be clean cause...low and behold...she is married - I know I sound like an a-hole taking other dudes girls...but they both...were hot and non-stop persistant that I bang'em)..At any rateI kept my word and told her. She took it OK, it seemed. I took an STD test and am waiting for results next week. She knows that but we still f'd one more time (with protection). Everything seemed fine and that was a week ago. But since that time she has started show a low interest level (reading other threads on this). I believe she is in the 50-75% range depending on the day. I am just playing it cool acting like I don't miss her or our hot sessions. She called me last and that was it - I have not been bugging her or pursuing her, asking to spend time, etc. All I did was on the last night we f-d was ask to her to grab my CD's from her car. Since then alll we have had is abrief AIM convo. I pasted it on my earlier thread here and had one of your DJ's
Here is what I need more advice with: I told her that I decifered what happened on our last AIM and I wanted her to tell me if I was on, off, or close. Here is that convo:
Me: Hey I have a meeting for the next hour...we'll have to catch up sometime.
Her (thinks - I'd like that): Yes we will! (thinks - hey was he giving me the brush-off? 'Sometime?')
Her: (thinks - I'll show him, who's uninterested) I totally forgot to give you your cds back that one night too...I'm sorry
Her: (thinks - Hmm , maybe that was a bit too final, say something to show interest again) I will get them to you soon
And here was her response to my decifering:
Me: Hey so since your acting so stand off'ish I figured our last AIM convo out. Tell me if I am on, off, or close.
Her: OK
(I then pasted what I have up there with my decifering entries.
She replies:
Her: LOL, your cute!
Me: Aside from cute, am I on, off, or close?
Her: Off
Her: See, actually I have been spending a lot of time with someone new I met. I didn't feel you were brusing me off or that you were acting uniterested. And was not trying to do that back. I have just been pretty busy. I promise I will get your CD's back.
Me: Cool - just don't try to "act like your to busy" cause I will check you.
Her: I am sorry if I sounded like that, I am not trying to come across like that sweetie.
Me: Aight, I expect em back soon =)
What do you guys think of the this AIM convo and now that she has admitted she is seeing someone else (which we agreed was fine), what do you guys think I should do - remember, I run into here daily at work and have the oppurtunity to AIM her all day. But right now I am staying back in the cut and looking for my DJ advice. Lastly, the last piece of advice below had me trying to push up on her, set some dates to spend time or an f'n session. It does not seem like that is possible right now so what should I do - fully ignore? Say "What up" with a pimp smile like I dont give a shiz..??? What?
Here is the original thread that started this situation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114765
So I got some pretty good advice on dealing with this crazy situation where I am bangin this HOT as HB-9 at work (I know I broke a standard rule..she was persistant in getting me to bang her, finding me more intersting then her current live in BF at the time, so it just happened)
Long story short: She cheated on her live in BF to be with me, it has been some of the hottest sex - she is a straight self-admitted nympho, waxed p---y and all (every two weeks), she down for bj's and all kinds of other hot stuff. We both agreed that we were not BF/GF, and that we might date other peeps, but we were going to be F-buddies and no condoms...so we made adult based commitment to let each other know if we slept with anyone else that it would be with protection.
I f'd up and on a 1 night stand and my stuff went in with out a condom..(it ended with a condom..and the chick...claimed to be clean cause...low and behold...she is married - I know I sound like an a-hole taking other dudes girls...but they both...were hot and non-stop persistant that I bang'em)..At any rateI kept my word and told her. She took it OK, it seemed. I took an STD test and am waiting for results next week. She knows that but we still f'd one more time (with protection). Everything seemed fine and that was a week ago. But since that time she has started show a low interest level (reading other threads on this). I believe she is in the 50-75% range depending on the day. I am just playing it cool acting like I don't miss her or our hot sessions. She called me last and that was it - I have not been bugging her or pursuing her, asking to spend time, etc. All I did was on the last night we f-d was ask to her to grab my CD's from her car. Since then alll we have had is abrief AIM convo. I pasted it on my earlier thread here and had one of your DJ's
Here is what I need more advice with: I told her that I decifered what happened on our last AIM and I wanted her to tell me if I was on, off, or close. Here is that convo:
Me: Hey I have a meeting for the next hour...we'll have to catch up sometime.
Her (thinks - I'd like that): Yes we will! (thinks - hey was he giving me the brush-off? 'Sometime?')
Her: (thinks - I'll show him, who's uninterested) I totally forgot to give you your cds back that one night too...I'm sorry
Her: (thinks - Hmm , maybe that was a bit too final, say something to show interest again) I will get them to you soon
And here was her response to my decifering:
Me: Hey so since your acting so stand off'ish I figured our last AIM convo out. Tell me if I am on, off, or close.
Her: OK
(I then pasted what I have up there with my decifering entries.
She replies:
Her: LOL, your cute!
Me: Aside from cute, am I on, off, or close?
Her: Off
Her: See, actually I have been spending a lot of time with someone new I met. I didn't feel you were brusing me off or that you were acting uniterested. And was not trying to do that back. I have just been pretty busy. I promise I will get your CD's back.
Me: Cool - just don't try to "act like your to busy" cause I will check you.
Her: I am sorry if I sounded like that, I am not trying to come across like that sweetie.
Me: Aight, I expect em back soon =)
What do you guys think of the this AIM convo and now that she has admitted she is seeing someone else (which we agreed was fine), what do you guys think I should do - remember, I run into here daily at work and have the oppurtunity to AIM her all day. But right now I am staying back in the cut and looking for my DJ advice. Lastly, the last piece of advice below had me trying to push up on her, set some dates to spend time or an f'n session. It does not seem like that is possible right now so what should I do - fully ignore? Say "What up" with a pimp smile like I dont give a shiz..??? What?