Update!

[Cloud-uk]

Update on Phimosis Episode

EDIT: Ment to put this under a reply to the thread before, must have pressed the wrong button. Anyway, the background can be found here.

An update folks:

I went to my GP today and explained the problem. He agreed that it was what I thought it would be, the frenulum (bit of skin that attaches the foreskin to the shaft) is too tight. Hence, when the head is full the foreskin cannot 'give' anymore, leading to a pull on the frenulum, which hurts like a biznatch.

Still, he said it was very common and not abnormal for the foreskin not to go past the head during sex. So I'm supposed to do nothing.

I'm not happy about this. I don't care if it's normal all I know is that it hurts when I'm sexing. I did express my concerns; then he told me about his friend who also had the condition, who's frenulum ripped during sex, and was fine after that.

This doesn't comfort me at all! Kinda pissed off/ nauseous actually...

Anyway, i was a bit reserved about undesputable's method when I read it- sounded painful, but I'm just going to have to get it done myself so I'll do that. I do kinda want to enjoy sex you know...

Argh- why is it that if you need something important done you always have to do it yourself? I just can't fathom how I can have enjoyable sex without it going past the head...? Blows my mind. Anyone have any explicit advice on stretching is? How many times a week/ how long for/ anything I should put on it?

I'm still loving how instantly ridiculous I now feel. I'm pretty good with girls atm, I'm seeing this stunning blonde, and had a ONS with a girl who I am 'just friends' with last week. Yet sex absoultely kills me! I've been on this site for two years and when I think it's all coming together I get let down- by my own penis!

It's an inside job I tells ya!:crackup:

 

[bullmoose]

Play this one right, and you'll have girls swarming all over you, absolutely determined to be THE ONE who "cures" you.

I had a girl once tell me, "Show me an impotent guy who *still* wants to please me. That's flattering." I'd suggest you forget the c0ck for awhile and put some time in with the ol' finger-tongue action. Get to be a master at it. She will not forget your "selflessness," and you can then reap the benefits down the road when you're "cured."

 

[spider_007]

I feel silly saying this but im gona say it anyway:

After I was born A doctor told my mother to pull the skin over the head every time she gave me a shower, that way the skin streches and I don't have any problems down the road. When i started taking a bath by my self I kinda forgot about it for a while, and it was kinda hard to strech it back over the head again.

from now on, everytime you take a shower, try and pull the skin over as far as you can. couple of months from now i'll all be fine. the skin will strech....

 

[Cloud-uk]

Originally posted by bullmoose
Play this one right, and you'll have girls swarming all over you, absolutely determined to be THE ONE who "cures" you.

I had a girl once tell me, "Show me an impotent guy who *still* wants to please me. That's flattering."

Women say the dumbest things.

 

[gargamel]

Oh, sure it's common.

When I was a kid, I couldn't even pull it down all the way. The foreskin was too tight and my frenulum too short. It hurt like hell the first few times I pulled it down. I didn't even know if I was supposed to do that. Today I'm lucky I had the "courage" to do it (nobody actually told me what was I supposed to do) cause if I haven't, I'd have serious infections and painful sex.

I actually forgot about it totally. I don't know what others suggested, but you should be able to strech it with daily excercise Or even better, find yourself a nurse to stretch it for you

 

[Life-Trainee]

Stretching works if you have patience. It's a slow process and may take months. The basic procedure is to get an erection and pull the skin as far back as you can with little pain. Hold the stretch as long as you can. Then repeat. You'll find that you're able to stretch further with time.