LostbutFound
Don Juan
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I've been really chill about the whole situation with this girl...I've given her space and pretty much left it on her what she wants to do, because I wasnt gonna just sit around...So on Monday I gave her a call, but got the answering machine, so I simply said "its me, give me a call when you get a chance."
I didnt get a call back that night, but I found out she was working so I let that slide....She called me the next day, and we started talking but something was different....We talked like nothin went wrong between us and we were still together...It was very strange because since we gave each other our space, I would only talk to her for like 5 minutes at a time and it was a very awkward 5 minutes where we had nothing to really talk about, which is rare for us, we can bull**** for hours and never get tired of it....
So we talk for like an hour and a half...several times I said I was gonna leave because I had stuff to do, but she would bring something up and we stayed on, it felt almost as if she didnt want me to hang up!! So she sounded really happy and that was cool, it kind of seems like she has cleared whatever she needed to clear up....
As for that stuff with the ex coming over and some guy leaving a rose on her car....she told me what was up with that....First off she said the ex is an ex, and thats it....she wants to be friends with him because he basically changed her life for her, so she holds him in her debt so to speak...and for the rose on the car...she said it was from the guy who played her out last year, and she asked why he did that....he gave some excuse that hes coming home from college and he misses her, she just laughed right at him and said "oh so you only miss me when you are coming back home, but I dont hear a word from you when you're at school??" and she told him to FVck off and that shes not stupid....
So she said she was thinking about me and all that, and I had to end the conversation because I had class....So she calls me later that night after she had class and she sounds even happier than before, and she just said to me "dont take this too far(actually she said something different, but I forget what it was) but I absolutely love you for what you are doing." I got confused and didnt know exactly what she meant.
she just said she was happy that I gave her time to clear her head and get herself situated and that I wasnt pressuring her or acting like a ***** about the situation (she had a guy do that once and she totally lost interest)
So things sound like they took a turn for the better...I still got my gaurd up a bit, but we'll see whats gonna happen....Sorry for the long post, Just want to show some of the guys on here that are asking what they should do when they come to a separation or something in their relationship....Just take it slow and dont let it get to you, if she knows what you're worth, she'll be back!!!
I didnt get a call back that night, but I found out she was working so I let that slide....She called me the next day, and we started talking but something was different....We talked like nothin went wrong between us and we were still together...It was very strange because since we gave each other our space, I would only talk to her for like 5 minutes at a time and it was a very awkward 5 minutes where we had nothing to really talk about, which is rare for us, we can bull**** for hours and never get tired of it....
So we talk for like an hour and a half...several times I said I was gonna leave because I had stuff to do, but she would bring something up and we stayed on, it felt almost as if she didnt want me to hang up!! So she sounded really happy and that was cool, it kind of seems like she has cleared whatever she needed to clear up....
As for that stuff with the ex coming over and some guy leaving a rose on her car....she told me what was up with that....First off she said the ex is an ex, and thats it....she wants to be friends with him because he basically changed her life for her, so she holds him in her debt so to speak...and for the rose on the car...she said it was from the guy who played her out last year, and she asked why he did that....he gave some excuse that hes coming home from college and he misses her, she just laughed right at him and said "oh so you only miss me when you are coming back home, but I dont hear a word from you when you're at school??" and she told him to FVck off and that shes not stupid....
So she said she was thinking about me and all that, and I had to end the conversation because I had class....So she calls me later that night after she had class and she sounds even happier than before, and she just said to me "dont take this too far(actually she said something different, but I forget what it was) but I absolutely love you for what you are doing." I got confused and didnt know exactly what she meant.
she just said she was happy that I gave her time to clear her head and get herself situated and that I wasnt pressuring her or acting like a ***** about the situation (she had a guy do that once and she totally lost interest)
So things sound like they took a turn for the better...I still got my gaurd up a bit, but we'll see whats gonna happen....Sorry for the long post, Just want to show some of the guys on here that are asking what they should do when they come to a separation or something in their relationship....Just take it slow and dont let it get to you, if she knows what you're worth, she'll be back!!!
