"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wayword said:
My point is LEGALLY, from pedophiles to statuatory "rapists," they are simply all labelled "sex offenders" with no distinction made (someone correct me if I'm wrong).

I believe that's why there are so many registered sex offenders - the majority are simply 20-30-something dudes who had sex with teenage minors - but not "pedophiles."

Again, someone correct me on the wrong, as I don't know the actual stats...
to the general public, a letter is sent when a sexual offender moves into your area but its pretty vague.

have you ever seen a sexual offender listing for your state?
it lists counties and the names in abc order, including their registered address and other information. some states even list the actual crimes they were charged with. other states you must run a police report on the individual to see the crimes. the crime might be sex with a minor, it might be 1st degree rape, it might be 1st degree sodimy and it might just be sexual harrassment.

i could personally not give a rats a$$ about a 19 yr old sleeping with his 15 yr old girlfriend. sure shes young, but so is he.
the whole point i was getting at were grown men who rape and/ or murder innocent children like the fella in the link i posted. should he deserve to get his forehead branded and tattooed unwillingly so the general public can see it, so that he must be reminded of the child he abused and killed? should others be forced to have the same fate? is this going to help anything?

ive heard that drunk drivers must carry a picture of their victims in their wallets forever as part of their punishment...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten said:
have you ever seen a sexual offender listing for your state?
it lists counties and the names in abc order, including their registered address and other information. some states even list the actual crimes they were charged with.
Well, I've seen "sex offender" registries on the net - and seem to recall very little info on their crime listed - except possibly the age of the victim.

And in MOST cases, it did seem she was just a teenager just under the age of consent. NOT "pedophilia" per se. Been a while since I looked, could be a bit fuzzy on this though...

Maybe someone can post an online registry here as a sample?
 

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Wyldfire said:
Bingo...the Government needs to start opening federally funded public drug rehab facilities instead of building new prisons. Get the prisoners addicted to substances whose crimes are drug/alcohol related out of the prisons and put them in rehab and lock up the freaking sex offenders.
I don't see lot of drug addicts in Saudi Arabia or Turkey.
 

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wayword said:
Well, I've seen "sex offender" registries on the net - and seem to recall very little info on their crime listed - except possibly the age of the victim.

And in MOST cases, it did seem she was just a teenager just under the age of consent. NOT "pedophilia" per se. Been a while since I looked, could be a bit fuzzy on this though...

Maybe someone can post an online registry here as a sample?

They list VERY little in some states. Sometimes is very hard to know the reason he/she is an offender. For all I know could be an 18 year old kid having "consentual" sex with a 15 year old kid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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