You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
badgm's57 said:safe sex is no sex thats the bottom line.
sex seems leads to trouble one way or another.
how do you mean, after? like you pulled out and it stayed in?judoalex said:i had sex with a chick and i dont know wy but my condom fell off after my ejaculation, what is the percentage of getting a std without a condom like aids?im ****ing worried
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm presuming teh chick is liek a girlfriend?judoalex said:i had sex with a chick and i dont know wy but my condom fell off after my ejaculation, what is the percentage of getting a std without a condom like aids?im ****ing worried
d9930380 said:However the odds are extremely low for straight sex but to be sure, get a std check. Even if the girl has something then it's still quite low.
Moved to AE; closed.diablo said:Facts and figures are completely meaningless in this capacity. Either you get an STD or you don't. There is no way to accurately determine the probability of your contracting a disease based on what the profession of the woman you sleep with is. In short, if the girl has a disease, and the condom breaks, you're screwed. If she doesn't have one, and it breaks, you're okay. If she doesn't have a disease and the condom breaks, you're okay. If she does have a disease and the condom doesn't break, you're okay. If she doesn't have a disease and the condom doesn't break, you're okay. If she's a waitress and she has a disease, and your condom breaks, you're screwed. If she's a stripper and doesn't have a disease, and the condom breaks, you're still okay.
Since this question is rather pointless and has no accurate answer; closed.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.