Unlock your power
By Sammo
Fear is and always has been the greatest enemy of mankind, once we eliminate this fear we are free to do anything we wish. Fear is the greatest obstacle to success in your life as well as your career. It makes you feel insecure, deep deep down inside your subconcious it eats away at you. It makes positive oppurtunities appear as negative ones. So to tackle your fear would be the number one thing to do before continuing on with any other things you wish to do. It's the most important improvement you need to make upon yourself.
Their is an inverse relationship between fear and self-esteem, a helpful analogy would be a seesaw. The lower your self-esteem, the higher you fear levels are, but on the flip side of this: The higher your self-esteem the lower your fear levels. Everything you do to raise your self-esteem will dilute the fear that holds you back and everything you do to lower your fears will highten your self-esteem. Understanding this is the key to defeating fear.
All fears are learned by repetition of the fear inducing event or events. Fears are unlearned by acts of courage in opposition to the responses of fear. It's has been said before, keep approaching and you will lose your fear of it. But now you understand why it reduces your fear of it. So if there is something you fear then confront it any time you can, repeatedly until it goes away. It is the only way. This process is called 'systematic desensitisation' and is the most effective way of developing courage and confidence in ANY area of your life!
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain."
A massive portion of fear in life is fear of rejection. To overcome this you need to learn to speak on your feet. Certain fears are bundled together, like wires, in the subconcious mind. The short-circuiting of one fear causes the short-circuiting of the others on the same curcuit. One fear that is bundled in with the fear of rejection is the fear of public speaking. Many people have been known to rank the fear of public speaking before the fear of death.
When you learn to speak on your feet, you become more confident and self-assured in one on one interactions with people. When you become a completely competent public speaker you will be powerful and persuasive in other conversations.
So i have showed you the process of defeating any fear you wish and exactly how to defeat the number one fear that stops people from achieving success socially. So here are two things you can do right now:
Here is my challenge to all of you, every single day of your life put yourself in fear ATLEAST once! It's time to stop ****ing around and confront your inner demons.
.. Dont worry guys, ill shut the **** up one day.
By Sammo
Fear is and always has been the greatest enemy of mankind, once we eliminate this fear we are free to do anything we wish. Fear is the greatest obstacle to success in your life as well as your career. It makes you feel insecure, deep deep down inside your subconcious it eats away at you. It makes positive oppurtunities appear as negative ones. So to tackle your fear would be the number one thing to do before continuing on with any other things you wish to do. It's the most important improvement you need to make upon yourself.
Their is an inverse relationship between fear and self-esteem, a helpful analogy would be a seesaw. The lower your self-esteem, the higher you fear levels are, but on the flip side of this: The higher your self-esteem the lower your fear levels. Everything you do to raise your self-esteem will dilute the fear that holds you back and everything you do to lower your fears will highten your self-esteem. Understanding this is the key to defeating fear.
All fears are learned by repetition of the fear inducing event or events. Fears are unlearned by acts of courage in opposition to the responses of fear. It's has been said before, keep approaching and you will lose your fear of it. But now you understand why it reduces your fear of it. So if there is something you fear then confront it any time you can, repeatedly until it goes away. It is the only way. This process is called 'systematic desensitisation' and is the most effective way of developing courage and confidence in ANY area of your life!
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain."
A massive portion of fear in life is fear of rejection. To overcome this you need to learn to speak on your feet. Certain fears are bundled together, like wires, in the subconcious mind. The short-circuiting of one fear causes the short-circuiting of the others on the same curcuit. One fear that is bundled in with the fear of rejection is the fear of public speaking. Many people have been known to rank the fear of public speaking before the fear of death.
When you learn to speak on your feet, you become more confident and self-assured in one on one interactions with people. When you become a completely competent public speaker you will be powerful and persuasive in other conversations.
So i have showed you the process of defeating any fear you wish and exactly how to defeat the number one fear that stops people from achieving success socially. So here are two things you can do right now:
- Learn how to speak on your feet. Take a course, read a book, and practise practice, practice. It can change your life.
- Identify the fear that is holiding you back and resolve to do it anyway. Become the master of your own destiny.
Here is my challenge to all of you, every single day of your life put yourself in fear ATLEAST once! It's time to stop ****ing around and confront your inner demons.
.. Dont worry guys, ill shut the **** up one day.