Men can always work harder and pay for an upgrade. In doing this, you train yourself on how to handle hot women, and if you are dedicated to self improvement, eventually you can date equally hot girls for free. It's called fake it till you make it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Unless you are really hot you are better off not wasting your time on Tinder
- Thread starter El Payaso
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