"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unintentional FR: Dental Hygenist

comic_relief

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Hey everyone,

I am in a relationship and have no plans of cheating. I think that should be put out.

I had a dentist appointment today and the dental hygenist is 21 asian female. Average height and weight.

I sit down in the regular dentist chair and chill out. We start small talk about dentistry and she is really smiling and touching my sholder (which is very different from all other dental hygenists that i have had).

she mentions that she is single. We continually laugh and joke around. I get very flirty signals from her.

Her: "Well, I am going to check your teeth to see how far away your gums are from your teeth."
Me: (I never heard of any dentist doing this so I asked) "What exactly is that for."
Her: "Well we do this cause..."
Me: *smile at her at the word "do" and a couple seconds pass after I say* "cause..."
Her: "cause... because... sorry, you have some of the bluest and nicest eyes that i have ever seen."
Me: "Thank you, I get that quite often."

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Me: "So where did you go dental school at?"
Her: "I went to Northhampton Community College. Do you know where that is?"
Me: "Yeah, I always visit up that way."
Her: "Did you go or something?"
Me: "Yeah, my girlfriend lives up there and went to school there."
Her: "Girlfriend?!? You have a girlfriend?"
Me: "Yeah..."
*more small talk about other things and then it comes back*
Her: "So, does your girlfriend treat you good?"
Me: "Yeah, she treats me pretty good."
Her: "Do you treat her pretty good?"
Me: "Is there any other way to treat her?"
Her: "Suppose not."

*more small talk*

Her: "Do you live on campus or do you commute?"
Me: "I live on campus this year, but I am moving off campus this next year to [such and such a place] with one of my best female friends."
Her: "Female freind?!? How does your girlfriend take that?"
Me: "Well considering that I have made out with her a couple of times prior to us dating? Pretty dang good."
Her: "Your moving in with a girl that you previously made out with and your girlfriend is OK with it?"
Me: "Yeah, but she is also my best friend on campus."
Her: "Don't you think that there could be something that could reignite between the two of you?"
Me: "I suppose it is possible, but extremely unlikely since now she has a fiance." (lie since we flirt from time to time, but I don't plan on making it go any further unless something radical happens)

we left and exchanged names. Now friendsed on facebook.

I could have easily got her number and seen her, if I didn't have a girlfriend. For right now, I am going to keep it as friends. If I break up with my girlfriend, I could keep it as an option.

Ways that I know that she was thinking about me:
1.) searched out direct information on my relationship
2.) Used kino other than is expected
3.) Mentioned her own relationship status with me
4.) Complimented me
5.) Got lost in my "eyes"

:up:

comic_relief

P.S. No one lecture me on living with a female friend that I have made out with. We have dealt with that a while ago and we are good friends. I do not plan on moving this any further than it needs to since we are moving it. I treat our relationship as I would a girl at work.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Berlex

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dental hygienists don't to dental school, she's a lying b!tch!
 

comic_relief

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Berlex said:
dental hygienists don't to dental school, she's a lying b!tch!
whatever school she went to. she went to one.

Plus most of the ones that i know have went to a college.

comic_relief
 

bigjohnson

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they're not doctors, but they have to go to school. It's more like a technical school than a med school.
 
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