Understanding what spinning plantes is all about

[convict24]

I'm actually spinning plates now! I'm not singling out one girl to talk to. I have 3 right now! I know understand why it is so important to spin plates. If I wasn't I would not be doing so well with each one. Best part is I no longer care if I have to next one.

I'm also improving my approaches. The nervousness is fading with the hotter women as now I'm getting laid by hotter women! I'm focusing on myself. I'm the prize. My dates go smoothly and are focused on having fun and doing something different. I haven't been denied a kiss yet!

I think I also know no why I used to get stuck in the friend zone! I just never had the guts to make a move in the past when she clearly wanted me too! Il never befriend a girl again what a waste of time. Unless she helps me **** her friends of course :rockon:

Just an update its easier to share here as I only have one or two friends who have any game what so ever. Or they only go for ons and think I'm nuts... I want practice! And more practice.

 

[RangerMIke]

I really don't understand why it's called 'spinning plates' you're just dating around. As long as you aren't hiding anything from anyone, then it's really not that much work. If a woman you are seeing wants more and you're not willing to give her that, just tell her... if she moves on well... not problem, you have more time to see someone else.

Eventually you settle into a situation where you are seeing 3-4 women, who are also dating other dudes and it's really freaking easy. No stress and completely effortless.

 

[zekko]

Eventually you settle into a situation where you are seeing 3-4 women, who are also dating other dudes and it's really freaking easy. No stress and completely effortless.

Yeah, it's just casual dating. I had never used the term "spinning plates" before coming here. We always called it dating around, or playing the field. A lot of people in their 20s date casually. They are getting used to how to relate to the opposite sex, and are seeing what is available out there and what appeals to them.

The OP talks about one possible use for plate spinning, which is using it to get used to how to talk to women without getting overly excited about any one particular girl. A man who gets too attached or "googly eyed" over one woman will often be a turnoff to chicks because it suggests he is inexperienced or doesn't have options.

You talk about one reason why I tend to prefer LTRs. I don't like sharing a hole with other c0cks.

 

[RangerMIke]

You talk about one reason why I tend to prefer LTRs. I don't like sharing a hole with other c0cks.

LOL!! That honestly never bothered me, just wear a condom.... However, I do admit that it does bother me if one of the women I'm dating is seeing a dirtbag. It is sort of strange when the women you're dating causally is also dating someone you know.

A couple of the ladies I'm seeing now are also dating a friend of mine and he always wants to 'compare notes' which I shut down quick.... I never talk about the women I'm seeing with ANYONE.

 

[zekko]

LOL!! That honestly never bothered me, just wear a condom...

Ah, there's another reason, I frigging hate condoms.