"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Understanding modern educated woman

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The quest for knowledge in our modern world is something that is valued. We all strive to attain an education that we can use to our advantage throughout our lives. Some of us seek knowledge because it is useful; others pursue knowledge to prove their social and economic status. Regardless of why we seek education or what our goals, there is a great danger in how the quest for it can shape our personality. This danger is partially true with how it affects women who strive to attain its benefits. An education can enervate a woman’s capacity to love, respond in a positive way toward men, and grossly explode selfish attitudes and personality traits.

May women today are told that it is wrong and pathetic not to strive to become independent of men. Sadly, women in our modern society are ridiculed and looked down upon. A woman who is “just” a housewife is substandard and a liability to the cause of other women. Women in our modern society are brainwashed with the belief that the role of a nurturer is akin to slavery. “Le resistance” is the battle cry for these women and the prime motivator for their education. Most women don’t even realize what is going on they just follow the herd like sheep - the blind leading the blind.

With all these negative connotations associated to their natural instincts women now buy into to idea that their education and career will be fulfilling. They are also told that they should not be serious with a man until they have a career. They are told that in order to avoid a bad marriage and a divorce that they must have a career. They are instructed to behave in ways that stunt the growth of their natural instincts as nurtures.
These women no longer act like helpers, but as very confused and emotional providers. The capacity to be nurturing remains undeveloped and avoided. These women, as a result, fail to provide men with the kind of love and attention they require.

Their capacity to respond to men is also underdeveloped. Most are very cold and unwelcoming to the advances of men. These women are at constant odds with their natural instincts; after all they have spent a larger portion of their life fighting for independence from men. They have strived to become providers and not nurturers. They have fought for many years to attain their education and their career. The last thing they want is for it to be taken away. To make matters worse, much of what they learn in university is socially marketed with feminist agenda. In fact, most women end up taking some sort of women’s studies course. These courses only serve to confuse them even more and push them further away by presenting a bias and corrupted outlook. The natural relationship between men and women, which is normally one of compliment, is now lost - it is now a selfish political relationship.

Selfishness is the most dangerous of attitudes in a relationship. A woman with an education is now under the impression that she can have it all. She thinks that she can be both the provider and the nurturer. Her ability to nurture is stunted; she fights with her man for power at all costs. She tries to enforce a 50/50 list of rights and wrongs. The relationship quickly evolves in to a war of attrition – which is completely unnatural and against the complimentary nature of men and women.

When a man encounters a woman he qualifies her by how welcoming she is and how needed she makes him feel. Unfortunately for her, she becomes even more insulted by men because they don’t care about her intelligence- the very intelligence that she spent all her life trying to acquire. She turns to her career, but doesn’t find the bliss that she was promised. Her career stresses her out and again damages her ability to be a nurturer. She fights for power in her career, but doesn’t find it. She demands to equality, but only finds the hard truth about power. She wants to be “empowered”, but finds out the hard way that power is taken by force of will. By that time, she is old, depressed, and most likely divorced. Hence the 80% depression rate in North American women.

Even if a man with a good heart meets a woman like this he is at a loss. He won’t ever be sure if she can give him what he is looking for in terms of a relationship. Some men try to change the way they are to compliment her dysfunctional personality. This of course just leads men to become frustrated and hate women. He also starts to hate himself and his natural instincts. The end result is a nasty cycle of hate and depression from both men and women.

I’m not sure what can be done about these problems. They are deeply seeded in our society and our culture. I have noticed that once and while a woman will revert to her natural instincts and it can be perfectly natural to be with her. Yes you can actually be thankful for that rag of theirs. With that in mind, these women will always be available some of the time. You can also always play upon her natural instincts that still remain. In fact, all of the DJ tactics exploit these instincts. The problem of course is that you will have to constantly pull her strings. It can be fun at first but annoying after a while if you are looking for more then a good lay.

In conclusion, modern women with educations can be used for sex, but they are not capable of providing anything lasting in terms of a complimentary relationship. Please understand that a women with an education is different then a “modern” woman with an education. I’ve dated a girl with a great education but she is not modern. She has European values. This girl is amazing.


Know this one truth: once an independent woman always an independent woman. Her independence DOES NOT include you.
 
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice post.

Unfortunately for her, she becomes even more insulted by men because they don’t care about her intelligence- the very intelligence that she spent all her life trying to acquire. She turns to her career, but doesn’t find the bliss that she was promised.
That's when she fvcks one of her co-workers :D
...I had to throw that one in, because I've seen it happen.

I responded to a post not too long ago about this whole situation.
Thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88359

It's usually women in their 30s who are the ones to be avoided. I'll re-post what I wrote there:

Women 30 and over fall under many categories...

Educated
This is the woman who spent her 20s in school trying to develope a career for herself. Smart, making decent cash, and childless. The last one is what will most likely destroy her. A woman like this in her 30s will stop, listen, and hear <tic toc tic toc> and say, "Oh 5hit!! Menopause is around the corner!!! I need to start a family!"

Nutballs
These are the women that no guy wants. They drive men away from them with their 5hitty attitudes and rotting looks. Then they b1tch about how they can't find a good man.

Divorced or Separated
The women who most likely married too young, Married some dude that abused the hell out of them, or stayed with the same loser for too long. They're damaged goods and many of them also fall under the "Nutball" category

Divorced or Separated with Kids
These are the ones who don't have to worry about their biological clocks ticking because they already have kids. Now they need a babysitter so they can go out, have the fun they missed out on in their 20s, and find some guy who will help her raise her family.

Man-haters
Usually a dyke or on the verge of becoming a dyke. They're been so screwed around by men that they don't want to get married. "I am womyn, I need not a man!"

Dyke
Can either be an admitted lesbian or lesbian in denial. Will never marry a man.

There's also other women who fall under much smaller categories. Either way, the pickings are slim for men wanting a decent woman in her 30s.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Nice post.


That's when she fvcks one of her co-workers :D
...I had to throw that one in, because I've seen it happen.

This is true, I thought it would be best to leave out all the times a woman turns to her ***** when she isn't feeling fullfilled.

In other words, the more unfullfilled a woman feels and the more often she is depressed the more chances a guy has of just using her for sex.

The thing is she knows this and that is why she has ASD!


It is during that time that the Pimp DJ can make his move - and often does.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova


Divorced or Separated
The women who most likely married too young, Married some dude that abused the hell out of them, or stayed with the same loser for too long. They're damaged goods and many of them also fall under the "Nutball" category

Divorced or Separated with Kids
These are the ones who don't have to worry about their biological clocks ticking because they already have kids. Now they need a babysitter so they can go out, have the fun they missed out on in their 20s, and find some guy who will help her raise her family.

Man-haters
Usually a dyke or on the verge of becoming a dyke. They're been so screwed around by men that they don't want to get married. "I am womyn, I need not a man!"

Dyke
Can either be an admitted lesbian or lesbian in denial. Will never marry a man.

There's also other women who fall under much smaller categories. Either way, the pickings are slim for men wanting a decent woman in her 30s.


JesuthefvckbastardChrist . . . Talk about nailing it on the head.


Karma
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Educated
This is the woman who spent her 20s in school trying to develope a career for herself. Smart, making decent cash, and childless. The last one is what will most likely destroy her. A woman like this in her 30s will stop, listen, and hear <tic toc tic toc> and say, "Oh 5hit!! Menopause is around the corner!!! I need to start a family!"

Yes, this is the one that I'm talking about in my post.

It is the career at 20 on their minds that tells them that is ok to be a slu-t. Guys with big hearts who want a good girl at this age usually end up AFCs. The girls are just fu-cking around.

Now, when the guy gets to his 30s he ignores all the hoes his age and with his life in order (new car, money) he dates the girls he always wanted (20-25s) and uses them for what they are.
 

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The reason men have ruled education and the like is from being more logical. Women who are becoming more educated learn how to think and be more logical and less prone to letting their emotions take over. In short, women are starting to think more like men in the education realm of things.

Women were not even allowed to be educated because men didn't want them to be way back when. It kept them down and women wanted a good man as a provider. This has somewhat changed. Now women can provide and are even the bread winners in many homes now.

With more and better educated women and society's rules for protecting everyone, women no longer need the protector and provider, which should lead to more women dating geeks who excel in the today's information age! It's good news for geeks, but could reap a whole lotta of AFC'dom, because the woman will still be naturally attracted to a naturally dominate man and thus likely cheat.

She'll want the intelligent and naturally dominate man, which are hard to find, so dating the jerks will be as much as ever, yet settling down with more AFC type of guys may become more common.

I dated a woman for a short time who was a Tech Sargent in the Air Force. She constantly bossed men around all day, but still had the natural inclination to submit to someone she found naturally dominate, yet intelligent.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
The reason men have ruled education and the like is from being more logical. Women who are becoming more educated learn how to think and be more logical and less prone to letting their emotions take over. In short, women are starting to think more like men in the education realm of things.

Women were not even allowed to be educated because men didn't want them to be way back when. It kept them down and women wanted a good man as a provider. This has somewhat changed. Now women can provide and are even the bread winners in many homes now.

With more and better educated women and society's rules for protecting everyone, women no longer need the protector and provider, which should lead to more women dating geeks who excel in the today's information age! It's good news for geeks, but could reap a whole lotta of AFC'dom, because the woman will still be naturally attracted to a naturally dominate man and thus likely cheat.

She'll want the intelligent and naturally dominate man, which are hard to find, so dating the jerks will be as much as ever, yet settling down with more AFC type of guys may become more common.

I dated a woman for a short time who was a Tech Sargent in the Air Force. She constantly bossed men around all day, but still had the natural inclination to submit to someone she found naturally dominate, yet intelligent.
The problem isn't "Education" it is as I explaind - it is the "motivation" for it!

That motivation is what makes these women less capable of the kind of love and attention that men require.

You haven't addressed the fact that women and modern society degrades women who want to be housewives. There is nothing wrong with that kind of woman. There is in fact nothing more nobel then a woman who has faith in her man as a provider, supports him, and is secure encough to let him lead.

The reason women were not allowed to have an education is because it was invented for rich men. Education was a concept that was only granted to the rich. In fact,most people didn't have educations. You only have to ask your grandfather that. I'll bet he only had grade 8! You need to get your facts right and stop listening to the false notions of feminism that accuse men of being the "slave master" and oppessor. Most men never even had much of an eduation anyway. Most people never even considered going to university 50 years go. The fact is education was an invention of man. Women first had to prove that they could do it! It wasn't oppression. It was doubt in their capability.

Do you also say that men have oppressed women in sports because they are not good enough to play in the NHL?

What about the navy seals? How many women make the grad for that? lol

No... it is not oppression is the doubt of ability!

You sound just like a feminist actually

Don't you realise that if you take an uneducated man and an uneducated woman the man will act as the provider and the woman the nurturer. They act on instinct and that is what is natural. Nothing is natural today. It is all wacked out of control and everyone is f-ucking around with unnatural social constructs that are in the end destructive to human society. These people are known as social deconstructionists. You can blame them for the AFC!




One other point. Women will never think like a man unless she is a dike. Furthermore, a woman that thinks like a man isn't attractive. nasty.... you can keep that dude lady.
 

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Originally posted by Sicarius
I disagree. Education adds to quality of life. The reason women are not feminine as they should be and the reason they get educated nowadays are not cause and effect of one another.

More to the point, intelligence, even education, and femininity aren't mutually exclusive.
another person that didn't read my post.

Education isn't to blame.

It is the motive behind it that causes personailty problems.


Did I not say that women with educations are different then modern women with educations?
 

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Yeah, most people didn't get educations going back futher in time. However, it worked against women pretty well and minorities alike because history books were written by these educated men about educated men. For the West, this was so.

I don't buy into femininism or any of that garbage, just stating how it went and worked against women and minorities by not having educations. Alot of men took credit for what women did as well.

No, men aren't evil at all and made them sex slaves or any of that BS.

Today, women are becoming more prevalent in higher management positions for better or for worse. A man worth his salt will not be and would not be intimidated by a woman in these positions. If he is, then he is either less intelligent or a he-man woman hater or both.

Society is breaking down by having all the dumb girls strip on T.V. and things are becoming more sexual with less morals. This is the breakdown of society.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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