Underperformed in bed with a Co-worker...

[suthrnfried]

I'm really just trying to gauge what you guys think the fallout from this mistake will be. Here's the story...

I met a few of my close coworkers at a club for a fellow coworker's birthday and ended up singling one out to bang. Most of the girls in the crew look good. We both drank a good bit (who can pass up on $5 Makers Mark) and smoked hooka. Everyone danced with each other pretty sexually. Prior to this, I felt like most of the women at the job were attracted to me at some level.

Anyways, I dance with one for a good portion of the night and we both end up taxiing up to her place. Once we get in, things took a turn for the worse because of either performance anxiety or maybe it was the alcohol. At any rate it was bad by my standards...

My question is how to approach this f--ked up situation. I know most will say that i shouldn't have fvked where i eat anyways, but this is the mess i'm in. Do you guys think this will make the rounds, therefore allowing the girls to lower their attraction for me at work? How can I come out klean on this one?

 

[3countriesPlan]

wow that sucks dude cause they always tell someone about crap like that... keep up the confidence and trivialize what happened that night... its like if you watch boxing, ok so you got knocked out the first fight but if you can come back and knock out the ***** two times in a row then you will have won in the end and people will say you were fighter who showed up in matches 2 and 3 not the dude who got rocked in the first one.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Exact same thing happened to me but thankfully she didn't breathe a word of it to the other slvts at work.
Damn she was hot too. And I'd nailed the absolute shyt out of a cougar the night before. I couldn't believe my little friend let me down when I most needed him to come to the party. But no biggie.
I never did get another chance with her but I ended up nailing at least five more chicks from work after my experience with her.
Just act like nothing happened snd remember, many women blame themselves when a guy can't perform, so I'd be surprised if she'd blab in case it reflected badly on her.
Go forth and conquer!

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Southrnfried,
No lass you are far too dumbed down...Try harder!

 

[incognito42]

Play it cool, and in a subtle way bring up that night and blame the alcohol!

 

[SgtSplacker]

Never act like you want sex until about a second before you bust.