"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have this smell in my underarms which just woulnd't go away. Before I was skinny and there was no smell but the more I am bulking up the more it seems to be lingering on. I shower with soap each evening after work. Before going to work I sometimes apply deodorant but the smell comes back soon after the deo's effect is gone. There is usually no smell after my evening-shower but it tends to grow over-night and stays the whole day. I tried to shower in the morning in which case the smell starts in the evening and stays the whole night till I shower the next morning.

Is there any remedy/ solution for this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're probably dependent on aluminum based anti-perspirants. I've begun using Toms of Maine natural deodorant. Works like a charm for me.

If it doesn't work, get some botox injections in your pits to stave off the sweats.
 

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I found that anti-perspirants are great for preventing the smell, while deodorant just covers it up.

If you're using deodorant, try using anti-perspirant instead.
 

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Shaving your armpits sounds gay, but its effective. Reduces the surface area, which limits the production of bacteria. Bacteria is what causes the smell. Also, girls aren't too fond of pit hair.
 

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Yeah shaving helps a lot in geting rid of the smell.. An alternative would be just get some scissors and a comb.. and just trim them..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Eh, trimming. Might as well just shave them off. Looks better anyways. I guess if you're afraid of taking a razor to your pits though, you could trim. Hm.
 

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Welcome to puberty lol

Shaving your armpits sounds gay, but its effective. Reduces the surface area, which limits the production of bacteria. Bacteria is what causes the smell. Also, girls aren't too fond of pit hair.
But if you completely shave, they might question your sexuality :p

I prefer trimming. I don't have a problem if I apply deoderant before I go out. I usually do once before work or school, then a second time if I go out after work/school. I also had to experiment with different brands before I found one I was happy with (Old Spice). Different brands work better or worse depending on the person's chemistry.
 

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Can anyone explain my random periods of random wetness? It normally happens when I'm sitting, arms horizontal to the ground. After about 20 minutes, sometimes I get this bead of....sweat that runs down my inner arm. It's really annoying :mad:

It also happens that I could be doing completely nothing and I end up with a shirt armpit area completely wet, yet I could be doing light work and have nothing. (yes, if I work hard, I'll get wetness)
 

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Shiftkey said:
Welcome to puberty lol



But if you completely shave, they might question your sexuality :p

I prefer trimming. I don't have a problem if I apply deoderant before I go out. I usually do once before work or school, then a second time if I go out after work/school. I also had to experiment with different brands before I found one I was happy with (Old Spice). Different brands work better or worse depending on the person's chemistry.

Hah maybe. Only if you give them a chance to question it though. I shave as much of my body as I can. Most girls enjoy the soft smooth feel of Staz :up:
 

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Today I went out & bought a Rexona anti-perspirant deodorant. It works great. I have thrown-out the the deodorant that I been using
Thanks guys!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Speed stick 24/7.
 

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Pick up either Dri-Sol or Certain-Dri. They're made by the same people, but one is only available by prescription. The problem you're having is due to bacteria; by using either of these products each night you won't have to worry about the wetness which leads to subsequent foul odor.
 

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I'm sitting here, and once again my armpits have started to drip sweat spots down. Does anyone have a solution to getting rid of dripping sweat, especially since I'm only sitting here, in a cool enviroment.....?
 

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Yeah... move to a warmer enviroment. I know it sounds strange, but there's this thing about the water particles on your pits condensing into droplets much faster if that area is... uhm... cold.

I use Mitchum! The anti-persperant that won't fail you! Seriously, you can do swimming with this stuff on - instead of a dry-suit. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Keeper said:
I use Mitchum! The anti-persperant that won't fail you! Seriously, you can do swimming with this stuff on - instead of a dry-suit. :p

This is true. Sh!t is magick. I like the gel.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Shaving your armpits sounds gay, but its effective. Reduces the surface area, which limits the production of bacteria. Bacteria is what causes the smell. Also, girls aren't too fond of pit hair.
I disagree with such statement. The society has made us to believe women should be the only class to maintain proper hygen. There is nothing gay about shaving one's ampit. Keep your self clean.
 

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I live in a naturally cool enviroment, I would rather be cool then warm, as I tend to overheat quickly.

I'll try some of that Mitchum though, I'll post my results.
 
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