"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ultimate AFC (unbelievable!!!)

PersonalJesus

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a ****ing LEARJET?!?!?!


This guy is seriously ill, I believe. But I guess a post like this will make people feel better about their own sex life.

but seriously, what the ****, a LEARJET?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Guys, what the hell, let's quit using the "AFC" bull**** label for anything and everything we find pathetic in the realm of weak men.

Yes, this dude is technically AFC, but he is also much else that we can't even know without some diagnosis.

An AFC is a man who for all intents and purposes lives a normal life and has the normal amount of quirks - he just happens to have some which impede his proper and strong relations with women. An AFC can lead a quite unremarkable life with the exception that he is a weak man when it comes to women.

An AFC is not by definition mentally ill. He is just behaviorally and sexually stunted, most likely a virtue of environment (childhood and present). An AFC is not necessarily mentally ill.

The man in this article is mentally ill for chrissakes, not AFC.
 

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hey Bible Belt, what do you mean guys that are in jail for being AFC?? This is interesting, give an example
I mean for violating a restraining order or stalking. States are starting to pass anti-stalker laws. Stalking in my state is defined as two or more unwanted visits. If your gf suddenly dumps you and tells you to leave, you can't show up in the parking lot at her work to try to get an explanation. The second time is felony stalking.
 

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This dude is an AFC with money, the only difference between him and most others is that he has the money to do what most poor AFC's would hope to do. This is what illustrates what is wrong with being AFC in the first place. He does NOTHING to show the woman what is good about him, he doesn't work so that he can think about her, he buys her things but he has no value to her other than money. We do not know that she doesn't want him to stop but the best advice I have heard on this forum to AFC's is to look at yourself from her perspective and ask yourself would you want to date someone the way you act towards her?
I agree with the other poster, I would like to fly out there to slap him back into reality because he will wake up and realize that he pissed away all of his money for nothing. He will only wake up when he's ready though, you are not going to help anybody until they want to help themselves.
 

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He isn't rich, $20,000 isn't much money. He has seen to many Hollywood movies and it has corupted his world view. He is detached from reality and he will never get this girl. He has nothing to offer......
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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