UCI Irvine Students DJ Contacts

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

raykingofchina

New Member

Jul 20, 2005

Making friends with other guys is a piece of cake. But I find it's pretty rare to meet people who are into and actually GOOD AT DJing.

I'm not about to go and try to meet guys on campus and then find out if how interested they are in girls, how they deal with them, or if they can even deal with them.

So I thought it would be easier if the UCI DJs out there to became familiar with each other via this post.

If you are a student at UCI or go to UCI and consider yourself a DJ, please leave an SN or something.

AIM: Raykingofchina

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.