u r giving women WAY too much power

[prison/con.net]

over you. You're not going to die over lack of pvssy, guys. You CAN, tho, easily ruin your life with the wrong woman. BEWARE. Don't let your little "head" do your thinking. It won't matter a LICK, in later life, if you're a virgin to age 25-30, but if' you have kids with the wrong woman, you can easily never have a dime of your own, after 20 years of busting your butt. A really good woman is not easy to find, nor cheap. She's going to cost you many thousands of $ and take a year or more to develope into somebody that you know you can trust, and you're still WELL-advised to get a vasectomy (NOW) and adopt kids later, once you are retirement-rich. You'll be WAY ahead.

 

[Yewki]

It won't matter a LICK, in later life, if you're a virgin to age 25-30, but if' you have kids with the wrong woman, you can easily never have a dime of your own, after 20 years of busting your butt.

You make a good point, lots of guys complain about being virgins as if their life is doomed... but it's actually kind of the opposite. There's a lot more to life than women, and the fact they haven't made a life changing mistake with one is actually a huge bonus.

So many guys get sucked into a life with a woman they end up despising. Even worse, with kids. It's such a common, reoccuring theme. Most the couples I know especially with kids are not that fun to be around... their bitterness and frustration is palpable. And these are supposedly "happy" couples... it can get a lot worse.

Ironically, if you're a 25+ year old virgin... in a way you dodged a bullet. Take a deep breath and smile that you still have the freedom to do what you want and pursue your ambitions. That is a golden opportunity a lot of other people do not have.

 

[Reckoning]

You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it comes to vasectomy. The whole point of kids is to make your own, as a legacy and as a way to carry on your genes like your ancestors did for god knows how many cycles to get to the birthing of your ass. A vasectomy is for when you've already done that. You can do a reversal once afaik.

Adoption is so meh when it comes to fulfilling your purpose as a man.

Your point about not making your life miserable over a woman who isn't worth it is valid.

 

[prison/con.net]

so what? there's nothing special about me, or you. why g a s about the species, especially when doing so ruins YOUR life, hmm? To hell with THAT crap.

 

[piranha45]

You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it comes to vasectomy. The whole point of kids is to make your own, as a legacy and as a way to carry on your genes like your ancestors did for god knows how many cycles to get to the birthing of your ass. A vasectomy is for when you've already done that. You can do a reversal once afaik.

Adoption is so meh when it comes to fulfilling your purpose as a man.

Just because all 10 bazillion of our forebears were idiots who mindlessly had kids and ruined their lives providing for them, doesn't mean this generation has to follow suit.

We have education, information, now. We can behave differently from dogs and bacteria.

Life's too short and good to waste it on the ravenous maws we call "children".

 

[kraytkiller]

You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it comes to vasectomy. The whole point of kids is to make your own, as a legacy and as a way to carry on your genes like your ancestors did for god knows how many cycles to get to the birthing of your ass. A vasectomy is for when you've already done that. You can do a reversal once afaik.

Adoption is so meh when it comes to fulfilling your purpose as a man.

Your point about not making your life miserable over a woman who isn't worth it is valid.

How quaint. My life has been nothing but pain, suffering, and overall a pile of sh*t. Any kid I have is probably going to experience the same -- my whole family is cursed.

For me, there's nothing to carry on. I have no desire to see a little-me running around, I would rather have my family line end with me.

For me, living life is about living life, not finding the right woman to attach myself to and procreate -- the world is getting worse, and I'd honestly feel bad bringing anything into it.

A vasectomy is an option but who knows if I'll change my mind. We cannot predict the future, today. So for now I'll just take active measures to prevent pregnancy.

For you, procreation might be important. But how much of that is what you really want, and how much is social programming? What legacy do you have to carry on? Who can guarantee any child that you have will even be capable of carrying it, or sucessful in your eyes?

Really pointless to answer those questions, to me, though, since your free to live the life you wish to live. But I personally, am not a gambling man and see no desire.

I'm happy with myself, with my own money, and not having to pay for dependants for decades to come.. I'm going to live my life, to the fullest... and die alone, and happy. (Most likely)

 

[Reckoning]

Well if I get rich before I have kids, I'm never having kids. I get this feeling that life gets dull unless you have money to pursue all your dreams and hobbies. You feel something is missing so you get a wife and have kids, and sure you're miserable with them, but it's something to do with your time, like everything else in life.