"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two ways to get out of the friendzone.

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Ok. So you chvmped your way into the friendzone. What're you going to do about it and how to get out of it?

There's two ways. The first MAY work and will only POSSIBLY work if you simply don't care about the outcome at that point.

1) Go for it. Balls to the wall. Let the chick know you simply CANNOT be friends with a chick as you always wind up fvcking like rabbits. (You have to show her by actions as well as words. She either possibly decides to experiment with a friend or not. If not. You simply drop the chick period so as not to ruin your "friendship". No calls, texts, emails, replies NADA. Maintain some form of dignity. No orbiting.)

2) Simply drop the chick period and learn with advice on SS why you got yourself friendzoned in the first place to avoid it happening with another chick you want more than friends with in the future.


In closing: Either say f it and go for it or drop the chick period. You'll either get to be more than friends or you'll drop her as a "friend". Either way you got yourself out of friendzone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Right - if you pay attention to what is said here you should never allow yourself to be put in the friendzone, but sh!t happens.

In my experience, once you realize it's happening it's probably time to pack it in.

Going forward, stop being friendly and start being more sexual.
 
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The Friendzone Is A Lie

The friendzone does NOT exist.
This must be understood by all. You are NOT her friend. You are a pathetic excuse for a man. You are far too scared to "lose" her.

Living with fear is no way to exist especially this fear. It is not the way a man lives.

I say again. You are NOT her friend. You are an orbiter, You sit around like a little puppy dog, wagging your tail at every little bit of attention you have tossed your way.

So you sack up and go balls to the wall.
1) She is overwhelmed and puts out. (no "friendzone")


2) She says LJBF of some of that other craap and you are free to orbit another girl until you get the same speech from her. BUT "lets just be friends" is the biggest lie ever.

It means "i dont find you attractive and never will". You will never be friends with her because you have "feelings" (eugh). And she doesn't.

Therefore logic prevails and proves the friendzone to be a lie.:yes:


If you find yourself in this "FRIENDZONE" do you and her a favour and walk away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth said:
The friendzone does NOT exist.
This must be understood by all. You are NOT her friend. You are a pathetic excuse for a man. You are far too scared to "lose" her.

Living with fear is no way to exist especially this fear. It is not the way a man lives.

I say again. You are NOT her friend. You are an orbiter, You sit around like a little puppy dog, wagging your tail at every little bit of attention you have tossed your way.

So you sack up and go balls to the wall.
1) She is overwhelmed and puts out. (no "friendzone")


2) She says LJBF of some of that other craap and you are free to orbit another girl until you get the same speech from her. BUT "lets just be friends" is the biggest lie ever.

It means "i dont find you attractive and never will". You will never be friends with her because you have "feelings" (eugh). And she doesn't.

Therefore logic prevails and proves the friendzone to be a lie.:yes:


If you find yourself in this "FRIENDZONE" do you and her a favour and walk away.
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"Let's just be friends"
Sure, you ready to discuss the benefits?
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