"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two Killer Lines !!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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while in convo with the girl , use those two killer lines
" I M NOT TAKING YOUR TIME AM I ? ( as a polite creature , she s bound to say no!! Now she ll give you all the time you need

2 " ARE ALL THE LOCALS AS HELPHUL AS YOU ARE ?"
Now she feels she ll have to be helpful you ve used what s called LABELING IN SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY


best way to approach asking for a difficult direction pretend you re a stranger she might even take you to the place

don t forget to neg her a couple of times always the negs


maje your street approaches become part of you , second nature so you do it any time anywhere anyplace


do 4 approaches everyday until you die it must become as natural as breathing

and finally

remember it s a numbers game do your 4 appoaches forget about it go home ( you ve done your 4 approaches ) next show =tomorrow
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damn, dude. I thought you were offering up some gaggers of blow. That sux.
 

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"" I M NOT TAKING YOUR TIME AM I ?"

Translation: I lack confidence and am beneath you.
 
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mrRuckus said:
"" I M NOT TAKING YOUR TIME AM I ?"

Translation: I lack confidence and am beneath you.
yea, I imagine you'd be saying this to a stranger so you could talk to them, and it'd be equivilant to wearing a sign on your head that reads "look no further I am a AFC".

Why don't you try, "hey, do you have a second?" while reaching out and touching her arm. She'll say sure every time.
 

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Random Thoughts !!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think we must try and get rid of this AFC CONCEPT OR whatever
obviously all the guys on this site have read JEFFREY s murky theories about pick up ( the guy even teaches pick up thru using the power of the occult shows how bad things ve become )

pick up is still in its infancy compared to marketing or psycholgy



most so called gurus out there are in it for the money and actually use trite marketing devices to attract the suckers

what works for them or does it doen t necessarily work for the other guys

an, issue that s never adddressed is moods
what do you do when you are not in the mood to charge ?

convo
When in a convo with a chick i don t use the above killer lines at the outset i usually use them midcourse , towards the middle of the conversation ( it s no way AFC it s based on conversational hypnosis or more broadly on social psychology you get a chiock to agree with you and due to the commitment principle she ll carry on to do so !!!! NO WAY IS IT AFC BEHAVIOR )

the point is the whole exercise is to establish RAPPORT with the woman RAPPORT is pivotal to the art of the pick up ( you achieve that thru negging her teasing her labeling her humoring her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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