Two guys who are on a higher DJ level then me (naturals)

[TheGambino]

So I have these 2 guys in my social circle that are savages. One of them calls game pure business.

One of them does things that only happen at night for a living, you know what.

The other guy has a normal job and does some things on the side. But they got style and looks. And ofcourse a reputation, they fvcked around with every hot girl in our provence, and are probably the most known guys in ''game''. Lot of girls that I dated that are above HB7 know them because of female friends that fvcked around with them.

They are fly. Tanned, muscled, tattoos, the perfect bad guys. But they have a ultra strong game too. They are both very good looking and are natural DJ's.

It's sick, every girl I mention they have a history with them. One of them declares himself the perfect 'side niqqah' like he says. And the other guy has a HB9 (in looks) don't know her personality as a main chick and several side chicks. I got a good looking teacher, who is my guide in this final year of school for 2 classes. She's smart, master university educated and he told me yesterday that he was in jail years ago and when he got out she stood there with an envelop with € 5000 -, I can't believe it, but its true. I saw them hugging on the party I was at this saturday.

My teacher saw me grinding and dancing with several chicks btw (funny fact). Shes about 28 im 26.

She doesn't go out much but the party was a very good one in the region that comes once a year.

Anyway these guys...

I developed game, I got so many plates in my rotation but yet you guys remember the oneitis chick with her friend. That they these guys came around, I invited one of them and they outgamed me and I became third wheel. (my old oneitis used drugs btw for the first time that night)

I just cant believe it but my I made peace with them and chilled at their house a couple of days ago. It's good for me to hang out with them because wherever they are there are HB8 + girls that only fvck with the rawest dudes like these 2, but they respect me and they know I fvck around like them. The guy with the main chick told me, girls know it. They know it. They know when your a alpha male who doesn't give a fvck that only flings for pure business. He says 'its pure business'
The fling, the fvcking, the flirting, just business. My main chick is more then that, but the rest is all business, whatever girl comes in.

He said: ''Your oneitis (by name ofc) came to me at the party acting kinda h0rney but I told her sorry my gf is around, she winked and left''

Understand the concept boys? My old oneitis is probably attracted by what he did. This is what she likes, a bad boy who fvcks her hard then puts her on her place. She doesn't even want him to catch feelings.

No worries: She followed me around too but I ignored her, I promised myself that weeks ago. I only teased her a bit but no talking.

And I understand this at least. When you reach a DJ state thats sky high, you know that other girls that know game, that are HB8s and that have had a lot of alpha males on their route. These girls will fvck you once and some will see that as the end or as a fvckbuddy. They don't want you to catch feelings, and these girls will smell that you won't. That you see it as pure business too. The guy im describing explained that too me and I start to sense it myself. I already do it, and other girls do it too but I never thought about it.

So guys, im challenging these guys. In 2 years I want to have a carreer after my study and outchallenge these fools in their business. Follow my rapports and learn from what I do.

Now I have to be honest, im good, but they are great.

The only fvck with models and that sort, and they are probably the last guys I should invite when im chilling with girls. But caption this: My hb8 teacher who was his fvckbuddy waited 6 months for him to get out of jail to help him with 5000 euros... I should probably never mention this, nor that I know him.

These guys are raw, NO AFFECTION, NO WHINING, NOTHING. You know why? Because they know they can get any girl when they are out. Im feeling the same, I live the same, but these guys are next level. I will reach the same and above.

Btw: We had beef about the sh1t that happened 2 weeks ago with the HB9's that were with me. I was making out with my old oneitis and they send her friend to get her out of the bed and she went to sit on his lap. I acted needy and left. But I got them back. Saw them at 2 different parties and they saw me hitting, grinding on girls and making out with girls. They followed my as$ around and I didnt give them the time of the day only smirks.

 

[Von]

So I have these 2 guys in my social circle that are savages. One of them calls game pure business.

One of them does things that only happen at night for a living, you know what.

The other guy has a normal job and does some things on the side. But they got style and looks. And ofcourse a reputation, they fvcked around with every hot girl in our provence, and are probably the most known guys in ''game''. Lot of girls that I dated that are above HB7 know them because of female friends that fvcked around with them.

They are fly. Tanned, muscled, tattoos, the perfect bad guys. But they have a ultra strong game too. They are both very good looking and are natural DJ's.

It's sick, every girl I mention they have a history with them. One of them declares himself the perfect 'side niqqah' like he says. And the other guy has a HB9 (in looks) don't know her personality as a main chick and several side chicks. I got a good looking teacher, who is my guide in this final year of school for 2 classes. She's smart, master university educated and he told me yesterday that he was in jail years ago and when he got out she stood there with an envelop with € 5000 -, I can't believe it, but its true. I saw them hugging on the party I was at this saturday.

My teacher saw me grinding and dancing with several chicks btw (funny fact). Shes about 28 im 26.

She doesn't go out much but the party was a very good one in the region that comes once a year.

Anyway these guys...

I developed game, I got so many plates in my rotation but yet you guys remember the oneitis chick with her friend. That they these guys came around, I invited one of them and they outgamed me and I became third wheel. (my old oneitis used drugs btw for the first time that night)

I just cant believe it but my I made peace with them and chilled at their house a couple of days ago. It's good for me to hang out with them because wherever they are there are HB8 + girls that only fvck with the rawest dudes like these 2, but they respect me and they know I fvck around like them. The guy with the main chick told me, girls know it. They know it. They know when your a alpha male who doesn't give a fvck that only flings for pure business. He says 'its pure business'
The fling, the fvcking, the flirting, just business. My main chick is more then that, but the rest is all business, whatever girl comes in.

He said: ''Your oneitis (by name ofc) came to me at the party acting kinda h0rney but I told her sorry my gf is around, she winked and left''

Understand the concept boys? My old oneitis is probably attracted by what he did. This is what she likes, a bad boy who fvcks her hard then puts her on her place. She doesn't even want him to catch feelings.

No worries: She followed me around too but I ignored her, I promised myself that weeks ago. I only teased her a bit but no talking.

And I understand this at least. When you reach a DJ state thats sky high, you know that other girls that know game, that are HB8s and that have had a lot of alpha males on their route. These girls will fvck you once and some will see that as the end or as a fvckbuddy. They don't want you to catch feelings, and these girls will smell that you won't. That you see it as pure business too. The guy im describing explained that too me and I start to sense it myself. I already do it, and other girls do it too but I never thought about it.

So guys, im challenging these guys. In 2 years I want to have a carreer after my study and outchallenge these fools in their business. Follow my rapports and learn from what I do.

Now I have to be honest, im good, but they are great.

The only fvck with models and that sort, and they are probably the last guys I should invite when im chilling with girls. But caption this: My hb8 teacher who was his fvckbuddy waited 6 months for him to get out of jail to help him with 5000 euros... I should probably never mention this, nor that I know him.

These guys are raw, NO AFFECTION, NO WHINING, NOTHING. You know why? Because they know they can get any girl when they are out. Im feeling the same, I live the same, but these guys are next level. I will reach the same and above.

Btw: We had beef about the sh1t that happened 2 weeks ago with the HB9's that were with me. I was making out with my old oneitis and they send her friend to get her out of the bed and she went to sit on his lap. I acted needy and left. But I got them back. Saw them at 2 different parties and they saw me hitting, grinding on girls and making out with girls. They followed my as$ around and I didnt give them the time of the day only smirks.

I'll say 3 things:

1. Your oneitis is in every thread you make, you gotta drop that. You look focused on the past

2. These guys knew it and abused of it to diminish you. Learn their game and out do them

3. Don't waste time with them, while you build and make your life... they will still be there and doing the same thing 10 years down the road.. if they not death or in jail avoiding soap drop in the shower

 

[TheGambino]

I'll say 3 things:

1. Your oneitis is in every thread you make, you gotta drop that. You look focused on the past

2. These guys knew it and abused of it to diminish you. Learn their game and out do them

3. Don't waste time with them, while you build and make your life... they will still be there and doing the same thing 10 years down the road.. if they not death or in jail avoiding soap drop in the shower

You are a 100% right on every point.

 

[zekko]

When you reach a DJ state thats sky high, you know that other girls that know game, that are HB8s and that have had a lot of alpha males on their route. These girls will fvck you once and some will see that as the end or as a fvckbuddy. They don't want you to catch feelings, and these girls will smell that you won't.

That's great, but be aware that when you are talking about these girls, that is a polite way of saying "girls that are on the c0ck carousel".

Also LOL about the stupid teacher chick who was waiting for the bad boy guy to get out of jail with money for him.

 

[TheGambino]

That's great, but be aware that when you are talking about these girls, that is a polite way of saying "girls that are on the c0ck carousel".

Also LOL about the stupid teacher chick who was waiting for the bad boy guy to get out of jail with money for him.

Cant really believe iT myself. I know This Guy pretty Well but he is the perfect picture of a DJ in All ways possible. (Badboy type)

Sh1t is weird but It All falls to pieces When you live This life.

He got the charm, the perfect dose of flirting then holding back, the aura of I dont need anyone and the style. The looks, the talks and the necessary empathy to admire women in his way and put them on the RIGHT pedestal. He tells them, They feel special. That's the pedestal I mean.

These Guys never ask for dates.

The tip They gave me? Dont be so fvcking eager. Girls dont like that. But im good, i got girls in my rotation that rejected them and go out with me.

 

[resilient]

Dont be so fvcking eager. Girls dont like that.

Quoted for truth.

 

[wifehunter]

sooo...they have game, but they pound sluts. What else, is new?

 

[guru1000]

They're not on a higher DJ level; just better looking. Better-looking translates into more success with the hottest women without even trying, which creates confidence and an abundance mentality--creating the illusion of "having game."

That's why I have always steered this site toward self-improvement. Ten years ago we didn't have as much self-improvement threads as we do today. The rationale behind looking your best is simple: You focus on you, and they focus on you. No "game" needed, and you now have 100% of your time to pursue your goals outside of women. See how that works?

 

[Roober]

Some guys just have that natural confidance. When you pair that with looks, it makes this whole process of getting women so much easier. It's like having to run 100 feet while everyone else runs a mile. Just as @guru1000 said..

These guys remind me of my uncle. Not a great looking guy, but in and out of prison. Always had new women and was dating 20 year olds into his 50s. He has bright blue eyes, and that seemed to always do it. Now he never really focused on improving himself, always making money in shady ways. Now he is 62, walks with a limp because he can't afford healthcare, overweight, doesn't have a family, or a penny to his name. He basically hangs out, collects social security, drinks 40s and watches tv.

What's the point? These guys may be great with women, but they aren't really helping themselves. Their success in life is how many women they have laid. That sounds like a pedestal to me.

 

[sosousage]

sorry OP but this thread feels HOMO. stop loving them so much. ps girls love drugs you didnt find out about anything extraordinary

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Why be a walking d*ldo to women.

 

[TheGambino]

It can certainly work that way, but like everything else I have experienced, there will always be drawbacks no matter what angle you take on women and in life.

I had spent several years enjoying the effortlessness of attracting women that looks and status often affords. I could spend 100% of my time focused on other things, as you said, without worrying about women. And again, as you said, I didn't need game at all. The drawback to it, speaking for myself here, is that depending so much on this approach can have a tendency of attracting the same type of women over and over again. It's abundance, but it is an abundance mostly of a certain "kind" or "type" attracted by certain things...whatever your thing is. And like everything in life, too much of one thing makes you desire something completely different even more.

Point being, any kind of success will eventually bring about desensitization. Desensitization breeds dissatisfaction. Dissatisfaction drives a desire for change. And "game", I have found, is typically that transitional tool required to make those changes in the types of women we desire and see as a good fit to our own lives, whatever that might be at the moment.

My days working in entertainment brought about tons of very hot floozies attracted to my "look and status", and I eventually grew sick and tired of these braindead types. But in the midst of these women, I had met a professional, educated, more worldly type of woman that wasn't so easily swayed by my "looks and status" as the others. For a time, I had dated these educated, worldly, pretentious types... and eventually grew sick of them too. Then I met a country girl. Sweet. Kind. "Down to Earth" as they say. Roll-out-of-bed beautiful. And on and on it goes.

I'd still be stuck on wannabe, braindead actresses if it weren't for having some game to see me through these changes that I wanted.

And on a side note, I also know many guys who had spent their lives working long and hard at being the best they can be, only to end up giving away half of "all their best" in a divorce because they married the wrong person. And in most of these cases, these men settled down earlier rather than later. They were stuck in a dead, boring marriage by the time they were in their prime as men. These men changed. Their "ideal woman" changed. Eventually, the ideal goal became a personal prison.

There is no perfect approach to it all. There is no ideal status or milestone. There is no right way. Everything will bring a drawback of some kind. Who we are and what we want, individually, will determine what those particular drawbacks will be for each of us.

Just my 2 cents.

That makes sense

 

[guru1000]

LJC, many words for you had no appreciation for the women who came easily, but the one(s) who did, you put on a pedestal.

To state, "Hey, I have looks and status and I'm still not happy," does not contradict that all DJs should be aspiring and striving to be their best. Just because you don't know how to be happy with what you were given or earned does not equate to others sharing the same disregard.

But in everything you wrote, I would encourage you to change this:

And "game", I have found, is typically that transitional tool required to make those changes in the types of women we desire and see as a good fit to our own lives, whatever that might be at the moment.

Don't try to "change" a woman. She's either compatible at her core or she isn't. This advice will save you much grief in your future.

 

[guru1000]

I never stopped aspiring to be my best, nor would I ever discourage any man from such a thing. My point was only that there really is no end goal in which a man will live happily ever after, no matter how "happily ever after" is defined. Even when he achieves the goal, there will be something more, something different, something new he will want. It never stops.

Yes, the "will to receive" is endless, though a "happily-ever-after" can be manifested; and that is in the present; right here; right now. Not to be confused with complacency which could incite stagnation, but rather to be operating "highly" in the moment.

Our purpose is to evolve spiritually. Material wealth, high status, women of the highest caliber are a means to an end--which means in the process of striving to be better and amassing the material comes great trials and tribulations--and these challenges are necessary to incite growth.

That's the process of life.

 

[zekko]

We had beef about the sh1t that happened 2 weeks ago with the HB9's that were with me. I was making out with my old oneitis and they send her friend to get her out of the bed and she went to sit on his lap.

You've made a couple statements that make these guys sound like some real scumbags. I understand you are wanting to learn from them I guess, or maybe try to get in on some of the girls in their orbit. But I'm curious, do you really enjoy hanging out with these guys? If you do, great, but it sounds like you're doing well enough on your own, without being dragged down into this crowd.

 

[ubercat]

@guru1000 I have to gently call you out on this in a good way. You're not a perfect individualist. You've helped out many guys on this site including myself