"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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two girls, two different interest levels

pyros

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Girl A I just know her because she's friends with a friend of mine and I've just seen her in person once.
Girl B is also friends with a girl I know but I have not met her in person ever.

So a few days ago I messaged these two girls via fb.

I said to Girl A that I'd like to grab a drink with her before we go to X club next Sunday (we both go there to learn salsa).
Her reply? well, she took one day to reply and told me this:

her: ;) hey, I dont think I'll have time next Sunday
her: but no problem for the next one

On the other hand, I started a convo with Girl B. After half an hour or so, she was asking me questions about myself etc, then SHE suggested that I should teach her to dance sometime. I asked for her number and we agreed to meet sometime.

See? which girl is more likely to end up having sex with me? Girl B for sure.

Girl's A reply may lead to confusion, cause she did reply, she 'offered' and alternative time...right? well, she took ONE WHOLE DAY to reply, and she said that she thinks 'she wont have time next Sunday', which is just a silly lame excuse. Who doesnt have time to grab a coke for 15 minutes before class?
I am not doing anything else with this chick unless she contacts me.

Don't obsess with girls that have little to no interest in you, and try to find and focus on the ones that make it easy for you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What ruler said. I would not discard girl A right away. She meekly counter offered and to that I would reply something like :
" Alright, let me know at Xday if you are free for that particular time "
You put the ball in her court. Girl B seems receptive, you got the number so strike at it and see what happens.
 

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In my experience, "playing hard to get" equals "not interested" 90% of the time.
So...if after a couple of weeks she doesnt initiate...I may shoot her a text asking her out, but if she declines again ---> next.
 
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