"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two girls, have to make a choice

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Whats the story,

Long story short, there are two girls that I am getting to know in work, (they will be gone soon as they are only on internships).

Girl 1: is exactly my type, intelligent, cute, quiet, and a little shy. A total babe too.
Girl 2: little more party animal. looks a bit more slutty hot than cute. nice too.

They are both friends and I get the impression that they both like me, but if I go for one I know the other won't be interested if I fail.

I have way more chance for sex from girl 2, but if I put in more work, girl 1 is the better option.

What would you guys do? Risk vs reward?
 

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What would I do? I'd worry about making a decision when there's actually a decision to make.

Right now it's like you're weighing job offers from two companies.....who havent even offered you the job yet.

So, until that point, I see no reason why you can't hang out with both of them until one puts herself in the position to be yours. It's not like you have to formally ask one of these girls out right now. Just ask to meet up for drinks. See which one steps up to the plate....or better yet, have a few drinks and pick one while she's in a social environment
 
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Dont put yourself in a scenario where you can fail. Just hang out with both of them and let things happen. You never know the nice girl may end up being the psycho slut and the slut may end up being a good pompassionate girl that loves to give BJs
 
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In the taxi home after a night out, girl 1 was looking to hook me up with her friend (girl 3). Girl 3 was only up for a night and I won't see her again. Nothin happened. In the taxi girl 1 was saying that girl 3 liked me in front of me. I dismissed it until girl 3 admitted she did.

Nothing happened between me and girl 3 but that behaviour from girl 1 isn't that of a girl who likes me isnt it not?
 
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Think of yourself as a shepherd for little timid horny sheepses. You have to gently get them into the corral (your place) feed them so they are happy (more drinks) then pet them so they relax (pen1s rubbing on buttox)... do eeet!
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not disregarding what you just said, but her telling me her friend likes me is hardly the act of a woman who is into me herself.
 
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AverageHero said:
Not disregarding what you just said, but her telling me her friend likes me is hardly the act of a woman who is into me herself.
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I wouldn't read into that too deeply. Far too often guys throw around the word "test" when girls throw mixed signals at them. Usually it means she's not interested....This is the one rare case when I think a test is a test.

She wants to see if you are a red-blooded, sexually-aggressive male, so she says that her friend likes you. Really, she just wants a show of power. Shock and awe. Not that she wants you to bang her friend....she just wants to amp up the sexual discussion so that you eventually bring it around in her direction. For instance, if you were to say, "Yeah. Maybe I like both of you. I'm holding auditions."

Now, that's just my interpretation. Maybe you've seen a truck-load of signals that she ISN'T interested. You're there, and I'm just some dude on the internet. But in my experience, a girl reccommending you to a friend isn't always a lack of interest. Depends on the girl and your relationship with her.
 
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What I omitted was that she just HAD to sleep in the same bed as her friend. This is after her telling me that her friend liked me. Her friend was very drunk, so she just passed out. I tried to sleep in the same bed as her, but girl 1 was having NONE of it. After saying her friend liked me.

Me and girl 1 who ****blocked me had an argument and I went down to the couch for an easy life while the two girls slept together.

Girl 1 proposed and then ****blocked a meeting with me and her friend.

The next day we were laughing about the great night had the night before.

Just seemed weird that she would throw her friend at me, then ****block me.

Thanks for replying
 
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AverageHero said:
Just seemed weird that she would throw her friend at me, then ****block me.
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Maybe she thought it would be better if you didn't have sex with her extremely drunk friend who's passed out.

Just a thought.
 
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