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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Mr. Kalikoat

Don Juan

May 28, 2014

I'm no total newb when it comes to game Harry, though I still appreciate your advice.

The reason why I don't pay for chicks is not so much that I'm afraid to appear Beta, more so that I don't need nor want to do it. Why pay for something if you can get it for free? It's like you said; it's all about the game. Paying for her dinner won't get you in her pants. Having solid game will.

Paying anything for a chick other than maybe one drink to get the conversation started is a waste of money in my opinion.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.